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4\u3002\u9009\u62e9\u5408\u9002\u7684\u65f6\u95f4<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u50cf\u5927\u591a\u6570\u7537\u4eba\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u5f53\u60a8\u4e0b\u73ed\u56de\u5bb6\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u4e0d\u60f3\u8c08\u8bba\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u53ea\u60f3\u6c89\u9ed8\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u50cf\u5927\u591a\u6570\u5973\u4eba\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u5f53\u60a8\u4e00\u5929\u7ed3\u675f\u65f6\u5411\u4e08\u592b\u6253\u62db\u547c\u7684\u90a3\u4e00\u523b\uff0c\u60a8\u60f3\u8c08\u8bba\u6240\u6709\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u5e76\u901a\u8fc7\u804a\u5929\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6216\u8005\uff0c\u60a8\u5c06\u4e1c\u897f\u4fdd\u5b58\u5230\u7761\u89c9\u524d\uff0c\u5f53\u60a8\u7684\u914d\u5076\u75b2\u5026\u800c\u53ea\u60f3\u5165\u7761\u65f6\u3002\u60a8\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\u5728\u7761\u89c9\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5728\u5e8a\u4e0a\u548c\u6218\u6597\u76f4\u5230\u51cc\u66684\u70b9\uff01\u5b66\u4e60\u5982\u4f55\u4e0e\u914d\u5076\u4ea4\u6d41\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u5173\u952e\u8981\u7d20\u662f\u65f6\u95f4\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9009\u62e9\u4e00\u4e2a\u65f6\u95f4\uff0c\u5f53\u4ed6\u4eec\u6709\u80fd\u529b\uff0c\u4e13\u5fc3\u81f4\u5fd7\uff0c\u5e76\u5177\u6709\u8046\u542c\u60a8\u6240\u8bf4\u7684\u8bdd\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u80fd\u529b\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u5728\u95e8\u53e3\u9762\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u6e05\u5355\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u7b49\u5230\u8be5\u7761\u89c9\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u8ba8\u8bba\u53ef\u80fd\u88ab\u52a0\u70ed\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7f3a\u4e4f\u6c9f\u901a - \u5982\u4f55\u89e3\u51b3\u6b64\u95ee\u9898] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-5-Choose-your\u6218\u6597> 5\u3002\u5c0f\u5fc3\u5730\u9009\u62e9\u60a8\u7684\u6218\u6597<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u53d1\u73b0\u81ea\u5df1\u4f3c\u4e4e\u65e0\u6cd5\u8bf4\u51fa\u4efb\u4f55\u6ca1\u6709\u6309\u94ae\u6216\u7ed3\u675f\u6218\u6597\u7684\u5185\u5bb9\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u6b63\u5904\u4e8e\u5468\u671f\u4e4b\u4e2d\u3002\u4e0d\u65ad\u5730\u8868\u8fbe\u60a8\u6240\u6709\u7684\u60c5\u7eea\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u505a\u9519\u4e86\u7684\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u7684\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\u548c\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\u90fd\u53d8\u6210\u4e86\u9ed1\u6697\u7684\u4e00\u9762\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e0b\u4e2a\u6708\uff0c\u9664\u975e\u7edd\u5bf9\u5fc5\u8981\uff0c\u5426\u5219\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u63d0\u51fa\u8d1f\u9762\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u5b66\u4e60\u6311\u9009\u6218\u6597\u4ee5\u53ca\u4f55\u65f6\u95ed\u5634\u662f\u91cd\u65b0\u6253\u5f00\u6c9f\u901a\u8def\u7ebf\u7684\u4e24\u4ef6\u4e8b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6709\u65f6\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e0d\u542c\u6216\u542c\u4f60\u7684\u8bdd\u4e0d\u662f\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u60a8\u8bf4\u592a\u591a\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u8fd9\u4f7f\u4ed6\u4eec\u5c06\u60a8\u5173\u95ed\u5e76\u5173\u95ed\u60a8\u7684\u5bf9\u8bdd\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u963b\u6b62\u8d1f\u9762\u60f3\u6cd5\u4f7f\u60a8\u62d6\u5ef6] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-6-avoid-using-using-trigger-words> 6\u3002\u907f\u514d\u4f7f\u7528\u201c\u89e6\u53d1\u201d\u5355\u8bcd<\/h3>\n<p>\u4e0e\u914d\u5076\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u4e00\u6bb5\u65f6\u95f4\u540e\uff0c\u60a8\u5f00\u59cb\u627e\u5230\u795e\u5947\u7684\u89e6\u53d1\u5355\u8bcd\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u8bf4\u60a8\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u8bda\u5b9e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u6240\u6709\u4eba\u90fd\u5c06\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8a00\u8bed\u548c\u77ed\u8bed\u7528\u4e8e\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u6b66\u5668\u5e93\u4e2d\uff0c\u4ee5\u4e92\u76f8\u4f24\u5bb3\u6216\u6124\u6012\u3002\u89e6\u53d1\u5355\u8bcd\u6216\u77ed\u8bed\u4ec0\u4e48\u90fd\u4e0d\u505a\uff0c\u53ea\u80fd\u786e\u4fdd\u60a8\u7684\u6c9f\u901a\u4e0d\u4f1a\u987a\u5229\u8fdb\u884c\uff0c\u8fd9\u6b21\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8ba9\u60a8\u66f4\u8fdc\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u60f3\u5feb\u4e50\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u8c08\u8bba25\u4e2a\u6700\u4f73\u5173\u7cfb\u4e3b\u9898] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = h-7-listen-inly-what-iS-being-said> 7\u3002\u53ea\u542c\u8bf4\u4ec0\u4e48<\/h3>\n<p>\u5728\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7ecf\u5e38\u6709\u4e00\u5806\u6211\u4eec\u968f\u8eab\u643a\u5e26\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u7ecf\u5386\u6709\u65f6\u4f1a\u8513\u5ef6\u5230\u672a\u6765\u7684\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\uff0c\u5e76\u4ee5\u6211\u4eec\u542c\u5230\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u6c61\u67d3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u6211\u4eec\u53ea\u542c\u8bf4\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u63d2\u5165\u6211\u4eec\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u671f\u671b\u548c\u610f\u56fe\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u6c9f\u901a\u4f1a\u53d8\u5f97\u5bb9\u6613\u5f97\u591a\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u542c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5355\u8bcd\u800c\u4e0d\u5f52\u56e0\u4e8e\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u610f\u4e49\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u4f1a\u5bf9\u4ea4\u6d41\u7684\u5bb9\u6613\u611f\u5230\u60ca\u8bb6\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u4ed6\u8bf4\uff0c\u4f60\u51cf\u80a5\u4e86\u5417\uff1f\u50cf\u51cf\u80a5\u4e00\u6837\u63a5\u53d7\u5b83\u5417\uff1f\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u4f60\u4ee5\u524d\u5f88\u80d6\u3002\u5728\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\uff0c\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u5c06\u6211\u4eec\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u6295\u5165\u5bf9\u8bdd\u548c\u6ce8\u5165\u6ca1\u6709\u7684\u610f\u56fe\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5728\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u6210\u4e3a\u66f4\u597d\u503e\u542c\u8005\u768410\u79cd\u65b9\u6cd5] <\/p>\n<h3 id = h-8\u95ee\u9898 - \u9700\u8981\u7684 - \u62db\u5f85\u4f1a\u548c\u62db\u5f85\u4f1a\u6240\u9700\u7684> 8\u3002\u95ee\u9898\u9700\u8981\u7b54\u6848\u548c\u7b54\u6848<\/h3>\n<p>\u4e08\u592b\u6700\u5927\u7684\u62b1\u6028\u4e4b\u4e00\u662f\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u59bb\u5b50\u4f3c\u4e4e\u6709\u65e0\u6570\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u59bb\u5b50\u6700\u5927\u7684\u62b1\u6028\u4e4b\u4e00\u662f\u4ed6\u4eec\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5f97\u5230\u4efb\u4f55\u7b54\u6848\u3002\u4e8b\u5b9e\u662f\u4e24\u8005\u90fd\u662f\u5bf9\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7537\u4eba\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u60f3\u8ba9\u95ee\u9898\u505c\u6b62\uff0c\u8bf7\u56de\u7b54\u3002\u5973\u4eba\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u4e08\u592b\u7ed9\u60a8\u7b54\u6848\uff0c\u8bf7\u63a5\u53d7\u4ed6\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u5e76\u505c\u6b62\u6316\u6398\u66f4\u591a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u76f4\u5230\u60a8\u90fd\u91c7\u53d6\u6b65\u9aa4\u505c\u6b62\u65e0\u5c3d\u7684\u907f\u514d\u95ee\u9898\u6e38\u620f\uff0c\u60a8\u5c06\u6c38\u8fdc\u65e0\u6cd5\u4ea4\u6d41\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u4e0e\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\u4ea4\u8c08 - \u638c\u63e1\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u5bf9\u8bdd\u4e3b\u4e49\u8005\u7684\u827a\u672f] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-9-Stop-precting Your-Partner-be-Aind-Reader> 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