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ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> 21\u60c5\u611f\u8650\u5f85\u7684\u8ff9\u8c61\uff0c\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5ffd\u7565\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5173\u7cfb<span Style <span Style=\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-4-DON-T-T-th-t-theaten-your-Partner> 4\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u5a01\u80c1\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3<\/h3>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u8bf4\u60a8\u8981\u79bb\u5f00\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u95f4\u5206\u624b\u3002\u65e0\u8bba\u60a8\u8bf4\u7684\u53ea\u662f\u5413your\u4f34\u4fa3\u8fd8\u662f\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u610f\u601d\u90fd\u6ca1\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u6124\u6012\u7684\u8bba\u70b9\u4e0d\u662f\u63d0\u51fa\u5982\u6b64\u5fae\u5999\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u60a8\u771f\u7684\u4e0d\u5e94\u8be5\u4ee5\u4efb\u4f55\u65b9\u5f0f\u5a01\u80c1\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u3002\u8fd9\u4e0d\u662f\u89e3\u51b3\u8bba\u70b9\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002\u5c31\u60a8\u6240\u77e5\uff0c\u8fd9\u79cd\u60f3\u6cd5\u53ea\u662f\u7531\u4e00\u573a\u6218\u6597\u89e6\u53d1\u7684\uff0c\u800c\u60a8\u4ece\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<span style =\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener>\u6b63\u786e\u4f11\u606f\u5e76\u6539\u5584\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb<\u8de8\u5ea6\u6837\u5f0f=\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-5-DON-T-T-RES-PROFANITY> 5\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u4f7f\u7528\u4eb5\u6e0e<\/h3>\n<p>\u907f\u514d\u53e3\u5934\u8650\u5f85\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u6216\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u4f7f\u7528\u4eb5\u6e0e\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4e3a\u4e86\u5f3a\u8c03\u60a8\u7684\u89c2\u70b9\u3002\u5b83\u4f1a\u6fc0\u6012\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u5e76\u4f7f\u4ed6\u4eec\u66f4\u5177\u4fb5\u7565\u6027\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u5b83\u53ef\u80fd\u6700\u7ec8\u4f1a\u4f24\u5bb3\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u8fd9\u5c06\u9020\u6210\u8fdb\u4e00\u6b65\u7684\u4f24\u5bb3\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u771f\u7684\u60f3\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u8bba\u70b9\u91c7\u53d6\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\uff0c\u8bf7\u907f\u514d\u4f7f\u7528\u4eb5\u6e0e\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-6-DON-T-BE-ARROGANT> 6\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u81ea\u5927<\/h3>\n<p>\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u5c06\u5982\u4f55\u5904\u7406\uff1f\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u95f4\uff0c\u4e0e\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u8fdb\u884c\u4ea4\u6d41\u4ece\u6765\u90fd\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u597d\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002\u5b83\u53ea\u662f\u663e\u793a\u4e86\u60a8\u7684\u50b2\u6162\uff0c\u800c\u60a8\u65e0\u89c6\u5c1d\u8bd5\u4e86\u89e3\u60a8\u7684\u60c5\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u5e94\u8be5\u505a\u7684\u6700\u540e\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\u5c31\u662f\u4e0d\u5c51\u4e00\u987e\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u771f\u7684\u60f3\u4ee5\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u89e3\u51b3\u5173\u7cfb\u8bba\u70b9\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u4e0d\u5c51\u4e00\u987e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u4ee5\u88ab\u52a8\u7684\u653b\u51fb\u65b9\u5f0f\u884c\u4e8b\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u60a8\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u4ee5\u8fd9\u79cd\u6001\u5ea6\u83b7\u5f97\u4efb\u4f55\u5730\u65b9\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;>\u5982\u4f55\u8868\u8fbe\u60a8\u7684\u610f\u89c1\u800c\u4e0d\u770b\u8d77\u6765\u81ea\u5927] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-7-DON-T-TENeralize-About-the-hir-Flaws> 7\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u6982\u62ec\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u7f3a\u9677<\/h3>\n<p>\u907f\u514d\u4f7f\u7528\u50cf\u60a8\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u5355\u8bcd\uff0c\u5f53\u60a8\u8bd5\u56fe\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u8bf4\u4e9b\u4ec0\u4e48\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u603b\u662f\u4f1a\u56e0\u4e3a\u6700\u7ec8\u5c06\u4f34\u4fa3\u7f6e\u4e8e\u8fdb\u653b\u7aef\u3002\u60a8\u6b63\u5728\u5c06\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u9519\u8bef\u53d8\u6210\u7ec8\u751f\u7684\u8bc5\u5492\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u603b\u662f\u8fd9\u6837\u505a\u2026\u2026\u6216\u8005\u60a8\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u542c\u2026\u2026\u9664\u975e\u60a8\u8bd5\u56fe\u4f24\u5bb3\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u5426\u5219\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u5e2e\u52a9\u60a8\u3002\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener>\u60a8\u4f7f\u7528\u7684\u5355\u8bcd\u7684\u529b\u91cf\u4ee5\u53ca\u5982\u4f55\u5efa\u7acb\u6216\u7834\u574f\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-8-DON-T-CONFESS- just-to-Hurt-them> 8\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u53ea\u627f\u8ba4\u4f24\u5bb3\u4ed6\u4eec<\/h3>\n<p>\u8bb8\u591a\u4f34\u4fa3\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u627f\u8ba4\u67d0\u4e8b\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u7ad9\u5728\u80f8\u524d\u7ad9\u7740\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4e3a\u4e86\u770b\u770b\u4f34\u4fa3\u4f1a\u5982\u4f55\u53cd\u5e94\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u662f\u7684\uff0c\u6211\u82b1\u4e86\u6211\u7684\u94b1\u800c\u6ca1\u6709\u544a\u8bc9\u4f60\uff01\u6216\u8005\u6211\u548c\u4f60\u6700\u597d\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u7761\u89c9\uff01\u4e0d\u4f1a\u7ed3\u675f\u4e89\u8bba\uff0c\u5b83\u53ea\u4f1a\u4ee5\u5b8c\u5168\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u5207\u7ebf\u8fdb\u884c\u6218\u6597\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u627f\u8ba4\u8981\u83b7\u5f97\u4e89\u8bba\u7684\u4f18\u52bf\uff0c\u90a3\u662f\u4e0d\u503c\u5f97\u7684\u3002\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u4e00\u4e2a\u8bba\u70b9\u5e94\u8be5\u662f\u5173\u4e8e\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u8bd5\u56fe\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u8981\u9ad8\u4e8e\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-9-DON-T-DENY-THE-RE-RE-ANGRY> 9\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u5426\u8ba4\u4f60\u5f88\u751f\u6c14<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u751f\u6c14\uff0c\u8bf7\u8bf4\u51fa\u6765\u3002\u6124\u6012\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u4e0d\u826f\u7684\u60c5\u7eea\uff0c\u5b83\u4f7f\u60a8\u6210\u4e3a\u4eba\u7c7b\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u5047\u88c5\uff0c\u8bf4\u663e\u7136\u4e0d\u662f\u3002\u5b83\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8ba9\u60a8\u611f\u89c9\u597d\u4e9b\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5e2e\u52a9\u60a8\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u8d8a\u65e9\u80fd\u591f\u9762\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6124\u6012\uff0c\u5bf9\u6bcf\u4e2a\u53c2\u4e0e\u7684\u4eba\u6765\u8bf4\u8d8a\u597d\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u5728\u5904\u7406\u5173\u7cfb\u8bba\u70b9\u65f6\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u5426\u8ba4\u6216\u5173\u95ed\u60a8\u7684\u6124\u6012\u3002<span style =\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener> 16\u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\uff0c\u60a8\u662f\u5728\u4e0d\u5feb\u4e50\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u5b9a\u5c45\u5373\u4f7f\u60a8\u4e0d\u60f3<span style = font-size\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-10-DON-T-TRAKE-ORED-ODSUSE> 10\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u6d4f\u89c8\u65e7\u95ee\u9898<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u6b63\u5728\u5931\u53bb\u4e89\u8bba\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u4e3a\u4e86\u5c06\u4f34\u4fa3\u7f6e\u4e8e\u9002\u5f53\u7684\u4f4d\u7f6e\u3002\u5728\u624b\u5934\u8c08\u8bba\u6b64\u4e8b\uff0c\u5e76\u907f\u514d\u4ece\u73b0\u5728\u5230\u8fc7\u53bb\uff0c\u9664\u975e\u60a8\u5e0c\u671b\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u5728\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u963b\u6b62\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4ee5\u524d\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u5e94\u8be5\u7559\u5728\u8fc7\u53bb\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u60a8\u65e0\u6cd5\u6539\u53d8\u4e8b\u5b9e\u3002\u60a8\u73b0\u5728\u662f\u73b0\u5728\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u8981\u4e13\u6ce8\u4e8e\u6b64\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;>\u5982\u4f55\u653e\u5f00\u8fc7\u53bb\u5e76\u88ab\u672a\u6765\u5174\u594b] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-11-DON-T-Compare><br \/>\n  <span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;> 11\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u6bd4\u8f83<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p>\u6bd4\u8f83\u75bc\u75db\uff0c\u60a8\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u5c06\u60a8\u4e0e\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\uff08\u4f8b\u5982\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u524d\u4efb\uff09\u8fdb\u884c\u4e86\u6bd4\u8f83\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u5728\u6218\u6597\u4e2d\uff0c\u5b83\u5c06\u523a\u75db\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u5728\u6218\u6597\u4e2d\u88ab\u6124\u6012\u548c\u6240\u6709\u5176\u4ed6\u56f0\u96be\u60c5\u7eea\u6240\u6d88\u8017\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u8981\u5c48\u670d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u63a7\u5236\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u5728\u6218\u6597\u4e2d\u6bd4\u8f83\u524d\u4efb\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u60a8\u4e4b\u540e\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u540e\u6094\u3002\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e0d\u5e94\u8be5\u88ab\u6bd4\u8f83\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;>\u7b80\u5355\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u53ef\u4ee5\u505c\u6b62\u5c06\u65b0\u4eba\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u8fdb\u884c\u6bd4\u8f83] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-12-DON-T-T-flict-PAIN> 12\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u9020\u6210\u75bc\u75db<\/h3>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u8bf4\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u4f24\u5bb3\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u4f7f\u4ed6\u4eec\u611f\u5230\u66f4\u8106\u5f31\u7684\u8bdd\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u60f3\u5728\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eec\u5435\u67b6\u7684\u540c\u65f6\u4f24\u5bb3\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u8bf4\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u4e2a\u5931\u8d25\u8005\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u60a8\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u8ba9\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4eba\u8d70\u904d\u6574\u4e2a\u8fc7\u7a0b\u7684\u50bb\u74dc\u5373\u4f7f\u60a8\u53ea\u662f\u60f3\u5e2e\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eec\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5373\u4f7f\u5728\u5173\u7cfb\u8bba\u70b9\u4e2d\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u4ecd\u7136\u662f\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u60a8\u6c38\u8fdc\u90fd\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5fd8\u8bb0\u524d\u8fdb\u3002\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u5c06\u5b83\u4eec\u89c6\u4e3a\u654c\u4eba\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u5b83\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u50cf\u8fd9\u6837\u3002<span style =\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener>\u604b\u7231\u4ec7\u6068\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u79d8\u5bc6 - \u5b83\u53ef\u4ee5\u89e3\u51b3\uff1f<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-13-DON-T-GASLIGHT> 13\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u52a0\u6cb9<\/h3>\n<p>\u4e0d\u8981\u71c3\u70e7\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u64cd\u7eb5\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u5e76\u5c06\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e0e\u865a\u5047\u4fe1\u606f\u6216\u865a\u5047\u6545\u4e8b\u6df7\u6dc6\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4e3a\u4e86\u6b3a\u9a97\u4ed6\u4eec\u63a5\u53d7\u60a8\u6240\u8bf4\u7684\u8bdd\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4ed6\u4eec\u4f1a\u5728\u67d0\u4e2a\u65f6\u95f4\u70b9\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u8fd9\u4e00\u70b9\uff0c\u8fd9\u53ea\u4f1a\u4f7f\u4ed6\u4eec\u5931\u53bb\u5bf9\u60a8\u7684\u4fe1\u4efb\u3002\u5373\u4f7f\u60a8\u786e\u5207\u5730\u77e5\u9053\u5982\u4f55\u64cd\u7eb5\u5b83\u4eec\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8981\u8fd9\u6837\u505a\uff0c\u9664\u975e\u60a8\u60f3\u8ba9\u4ed6\u4eec\u611f\u5230\u4e0d\u6ee1\uff0c\u5426\u5219\u60a8\u60f3\u5b8c\u5168\u5931\u53bb\u5b83\u4eec\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;>\u5982\u4f55\u5728\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u53d1\u73b0\u6c14\u5149\uff06amp;\u5c06\u5176\u5173\u95ed\uff0c\u5f88\u597d] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-14-DON-T-ther-and-Tell> 14\u3002\u4e0d\u542c\u548c\u544a\u8bc9<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u5bb6\u4eba\u4e2d\u7684\u67d0\u4eba\u6307\u8d23\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u67d0\u7269\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u4f7f\u7528\u8bba\u70b9\u6765\u63ed\u793a\u5b83\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u7684\u5988\u5988\/\u7238\u7238\u5bf9\u4f60\u6765\u8bf4\u662f\u5bf9\u7684\u2026\u2026\u6211\u771f\u7684\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u5728\u4f60\u91cc\u9762\u89c1\u8fc7\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff01\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u8ba9\u60a8\u611f\u5230\u6709\u8bc1\u660e\u662f\u51e0\u79d2\u949f\uff0c\u4f46\u4f1a\u8ba9\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u611f\u5230\u53d7\u4f24\u548c\u751f\u6c14\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u6700\u7ec8\u4f1a\u7ed9\u60a8\u65e0\u58f0\u7684\u5f85\u9047\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u60a8\u6700\u7ec8\u4f1a\u4e3a\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u63d0\u4f9b\u540e\u6094\u3002<span style =\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener>\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u63d0\u9632\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4ea4\u6613\u7834\u574f\u8005\uff01<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-15-DON-T-T-brush-Away-your-Frustrations> 15\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u6d88\u9664\u632b\u8d25\u611f<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u751f\u6c14\u4e86\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u6307\u8d23\u60a8\u7684\u67d0\u4e8b\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u5728\u5730\u6bef\u4e0b\u5237\u7259\u3002'\u611f\u5230\u53d7\u4f24\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u7684\u4e3e\u6b62\u50cf\u4e00\u4e2a\u88ab\u5ba0\u574f\u7684\u5b69\u5b50\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4ed6\u4eec\u611f\u89c9\u66f4\u597d\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u53ef\u4ee5\u4ece\u7ba1\u7406\u5173\u7cfb\u8bba\u70b9\u4e2d\u5e26\u8d70\u7684\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u4e0d\u4f1a\u6d88\u9664\u60a8\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u6216\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-16-DON-T-INVOLVE-A-A-TIRD-PERSON> 16\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u6d89\u53ca\u7b2c\u4e09\u4eba\u79f0<\/h3>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u4e0d\u8212\u670d\u5730\u6218\u6597\u6216\u5728\u8be5\u4eba\u9762\u524d\u8fa9\u8bba\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u6848\u5b50\u65f6\uff0c\u8bf7\u52ff\u5c06\u7b2c\u4e09\u4eba\u4f5c\u4e3a\u4ef2\u88c1\u5458\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u548c\u7b2c\u4e09\u4eba\u79f0\u56e2\u4f19\u56e2\u7ed3\u8d77\u6765\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u88ab\u80cc\u53db<\/p>\n<p>\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0e\u4f17\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e5f\u662f\u6709\u4e89\u8bae\u7684\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u5c0a\u91cd\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u8db3\u4ee5\u4e0d\u53c2\u4e0e\u5176\u4ed6\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u7b2c\u4e09\u8f6e -  32\u4e2a\u6d25\u8d34\uff0c\u70e6\u607c\u548c\u751f\u5b58\u6307\u5357\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-17-Do-Be-Honest> 17\u3002\u8bda\u5b9e<\/h3>\n<p>\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b65\u662f\u8bda\u5b9e\u3002\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u6e05\u695a\u81ea\u5df1\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u751f\u6c14\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u9700\u8981\u4e0e\u4f34\u4fa3\u8c08\u8bba\u5b83\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u751f\u6c14\uff0c\u8bf7\u544a\u8bc9\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u60a8\u4e0d\u786e\u5b9a\u81ea\u5df1\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e0d\u9ad8\u5174\uff0c\u4f46\u60a8\u53ea\u662f\u3002\u6709\u6548\u6c9f\u901a\u7684\u5173\u952e\u662f\u8bda\u5b9e\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u505c\u6b62\u5bf9\u4f34\u4fa3\u9690\u85cf\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u505c\u6b62\u5426\u8ba4\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60c5\u7eea\u3002\u544a\u8bc9\u4ed6\u4eec\u60a8\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u5982\u4f55\u4f7f\u60a8\u611f\u5230\u6cae\u4e27\u4ee5\u53ca\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u60a8\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u786e\u5b9e\u5e76\u4e0d\u96be\u4ea4\u6d41\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u6062\u590d;>\u6b8b\u9177\u8bda\u5b9e - \u4e49\u52a1\u65f6\u7684\u573a\u666f] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-18-Do-try-to-Communate> 18\u3002\u5c1d\u8bd5\u4ea4\u6d41<\/h3>\n<p>\u771f\u7684\uff0c\u4f60\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u8981\u4e89\u8bba\uff1f\u60a8\u6b63\u5728\u4e89\u53d6\u89e3\u51b3\u6df7\u4e71\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u5417\uff1f\u90a3\u4e48\uff0c\u771f\u7684\u9700\u8981\u4f24\u5bb3\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u5417\uff1f\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u8bd5\u56fe\u7528\u82db\u523b\u7684\u8bdd\u6765\u4f24\u5bb3\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5c1d\u8bd5\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eec\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u4ee5\u4fbf\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u4ee5\u7406\u89e3\u60a8\u4ee5\u53ca\u60a8\u7684\u671f\u671b\u6216\u8981\u6c42\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u4ece\u672a\u5b66\u4f1a\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u4e5f\u5c06\u6c38\u8fdc\u65e0\u6cd5\u89e3\u51b3\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684\u4efb\u4f55\u51b2\u7a81\u3002\u6240\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e00\u5207\u5c31\u662f\u95ee\u9898\u4f1a\u7d2f\u79ef\uff0c\u76f4\u5230\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0d\u518d\u80fd\u591f\u63a5\u53d7\u3002<span style =\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener> 25\u6210\u529f\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u6210\u529f\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u89c4\u5219 - \u5c3a\u5bf8\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-19-Do-try-to-Calm-Down> 19\u3002\u5c3d\u91cf\u51b7\u9759<\/h3>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u5904\u4e8e\u4e89\u8bba\u4e4b\u4e2d\u65f6\uff0c\u5f88\u96be\u770b\u5230\u7ea2\u8272\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u5c3d\u7ba1\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u751f\u6c14\uff0c\u4f46\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u4e86\u89e3\u6124\u6012\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u89e3\u51b3\u8fd9\u4e2a\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u7ecf\u9a8c\u4f1a\u544a\u8bc9\u60a8\u540c\u6837\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u5c1d\u8bd5\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u8bf7\u5c3d\u529b\u4f7f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u601d\u60f3\u5e73\u9759\u4e0b\u6765\u3002\u5426\u5219\uff0c\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u8bf4\u6216\u505a\u4e00\u4e9b\u60a8\u4f1a\u540e\u6094\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u611f\u5230\u96be\u4ee5\u5fcd\u53d7\u7684\u751f\u6c14\u65f6\uff0c\u8bf7\u539f\u8c05\u6216\u5b89\u9759\u5730\u5750\u4e0b\u51e0\u5206\u949f\uff0c\u76f4\u5230\u60a8\u7684\u6124\u6012\u6d88\u5931\uff0c\u5e76\u5c1d\u8bd5\u4e92\u76f8\u4ea4\u8c08\u800c\u4e0d\u4f1a\u53d1\u51fa\u58f0\u97f3\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u6062\u590d;>\u5982\u4f55\u51b7\u9759\u4e0b\u6765 -  15\u4e2a\u5373\u65f6\u9ed1\u5ba2hack\u4ee5\u4f7f\u75af\u72c2\u8131\u79bb] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-20-Do-Apologize> 20\u3002\u9053\u6b49<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u8ba4\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u9519\u4e86\uff0c\u8bf7\u541e\u4e0b\u60a8\u7684\u81ea\u8c6a\u611f\uff0c\u5e76\u544a\u8bc9\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u60a8\u5f88\u62b1\u6b49\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u56e0\u4e3a\u5b83\u800c\u5403\u60ca\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u4eec\u4f1a\u6b23\u8d4f\u60a8\u7684\u624b\u52bf\u5e76\u627f\u8ba4\u60a8\u7684\u8bda\u610f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u60a8\u662f\u5bf9\u7684\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u4e5f\u5411\u60a8\u9053\u6b49\uff0c\u60a8\u4e5f\u9700\u8981\u544a\u8bc9\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u60a8\u4e5f\u5f88\u62b1\u6b49\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u60a8\u5931\u53bb\u4e86\u51b7\u9759\u6216\u8bef\u89e3\u4e86\u4ed6\u4eec\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u662f\u907f\u514d\u81ea\u6211\u51b2\u7a81\u5e76\u5728\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e4b\u95f4\u4fdd\u6301\u8c26\u865a\u7684\u6700\u7b80\u5355\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002\u60a8\u5b81\u613f\u5931\u53bb\u8bba\u70b9\u8fd8\u662f\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\uff1f\u9009\u62e9\u662f\u60a8\u7684\u3002<span style =\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1bfont-family\uff1a -  apple-system\uff0cblinkmacsystemfont\uff0csegoe ui\uff0croboto\uff0coxygen-sans\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0cubuntu\uff0ccantarell\uff0chelvetica neue\uff0csans-serif;> [\u8bfb\uff1a<\/span> <a style=\"a\" font=\"font-size\uff1areverver;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> noopener> noopener> 80-20\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u548c\u60a8\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u751f\u6d3b\u89c4\u5219\u548c\u60a8\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u751f\u6d3b<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u521d\u59cb\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5bb6\u5ead\uff1a - \u82f9\u679c\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0cBlinkmacsystemfont\uff0cSegoe UI\uff0cRoboto\uff0cOxygen-Sans\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cUbuntu\uff0cCantarell\uff0cHelvetica Neue\uff0csans-serif;>] <\/span> <\/span> <\/p>\n<p>> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-21-DO-DO-DO-ALWAYS MAKIEN-AFTER-A FIFT-A FIGHT> 21\u3002\u6253\u67b6\u540e\u603b\u662f\u5f25\u8865<\/h3>\n<p>\u5c3d\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u611f\u5230\u751f\u6c14\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u50cf\u60a8\u4e00\u6837\u75db\u82e6\uff0c\u603b\u662f\u5728\u6218\u6597\u540e\u5f25\u8865\u3002\u8d70\u5411\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u7d27\u7d27\u62e5\u62b1\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e00\u4e24\u5206\u949f\u3002\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eec\u6df1\u60c5\uff0c\u5411\u4ed6\u4eec\u5c55\u793a\u60a8\u5f88\u62b1\u6b49\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u8bf4\u4e00\u53e5\u8bdd\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u62e5\u62b1\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u8bd5\u56fe\u8bb0\u4f4f\u60a8\u6709\u591a\u7231\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5b83\u4eec\u5bf9\u60a8\u7684\u610f\u4e49\u3002\u6218\u6597\u7ed3\u675f\u540e\uff0c\u8fd8\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e2e\u52a9\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u8bb0\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7231\u6bd4\u4efb\u4f55\u8bba\u70b9\u90fd\u8981\u5927\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u7b80\u5355\u7684\u6b65\u9aa4\u5373\u53ef\u7acb\u5373\u5728\u60a8\u7684\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u771f\u6b63\u5feb\u4e50] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-22-Do-do-validate-Feelings> 22\u3002\u505a\u9a8c\u8bc1\u611f\u53d7<\/h3>\n<p>\u5173\u7cfb\u8bba\u70b9\u5df2\u7ecf\u8db3\u591f\u6311\u6218\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5982\u679c\u6ca1\u6709\u9a8c\u8bc1\u4f34\u4fa3\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u6216\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u89c9\uff0c\u5c31\u65e0\u6cd5\u6253\u67b6\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4ed6\u4eec\u8bf4\u60a8\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u4f24\u5bb3\u4e86\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u8bd5\u56fe\u8bf4\u670d\u4ed6\u4eec\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4ed6\u4eec\u6b63\u5728\u5411\u60a8\u5f00\u653e\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u56f0\u96be\u611f\uff0c\u8fd9\u9700\u8981\u5f88\u591a\u80c6\u91cf\u548c\u52c7\u6c14\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u9547\u5b9a\u8bba\u70b9\u7684\u5173\u952e\u786e\u5b9e\u662f\u5728\u9a8c\u8bc1\u611f\u89c9\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 id = h-23 do-listen-more-more and-talk-nose> 23\u3002\u591a\u542c\uff0c\u5c11\u8bf4\u8bdd<\/h3>\n<p>\u5373\u4f7f\u5728\u4e89\u8bba\u4e2d\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u4e5f\u503e\u5411\u4e8e\u4e00\u76f4\u8fd9\u6837\u505a\u3002\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u6211\u4eec\u8bf4\u7684\u80dc\u4e8e\u542c\uff1f\u6216\u8005\uff0c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u6211\u4eec\u4f1a\u542c\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u56de\u5e94\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u542c\u53d6\u4f34\u4fa3\u5728\u8bb2\u8bdd\u4e4b\u524d\u8bd5\u56fe\u544a\u8bc9\u60a8\u7684\u5185\u5bb9\u3002\u5426\u5219\uff0c\u5b83\u4f3c\u4e4e\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u50cf\u5355\u65b9\u9762\u7684\u5bf9\u8bdd\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u95ee\u9898\u5c06\u65e0\u6cd5\u89e3\u51b3\u3002\u5373\u4f7f\u5b83\u50cf\u8046\u542c\u4e00\u6837\u7b80\u5355\uff0c\u5b83\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e3a\u60a8\u7684\u8bba\u70b9\u521b\u9020\u5947\u8ff9\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u6210\u4e3a\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u542c\u4f17\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-24-DO-PRACTICE-\u540c\u60c5> 24\u3002\u7ec3\u4e60\u540c\u7406\u5fc3<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u4e0d\u660e\u767d\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u611f\u5230\u6cae\u4e27\u548c\u6cae\u4e27\uff0c\u8bf7\u5c1d\u8bd5\u7a7f\u4e0a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u978b\u5b50\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60c5\u51b5\u626d\u8f6c\u4e86\uff0c\u60a8\u4f1a\u611f\u89c9\u5982\u4f55\uff1f\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u4f7f\u5b83\u770b\u8d77\u6765\u5f88\u81ea\u79c1\u6216\u4ee4\u4eba\u5931\u671b\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u5c1d\u8bd5\u6539\u53d8\u60a8\u7684\u89c2\u70b9\u5e76\u4fdd\u6301\u5f00\u653e\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002\u901a\u8fc7\u7ec3\u4e60\u540c\u7406\u5fc3\uff0c\u60a8\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e86\u89e3\u4f34\u4fa3\u7684\u6765\u6e90\u5e76\u4ece\u90a3\u91cc\u6539\u53d8\u884c\u4e3a\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;>\u540c\u7406\u5fc3\u5728\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u5f88\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u539f\u56e0] <\/span> <\/p>\n<h3 id = h-25-do-do-change-your-behavior> 25\u3002\u6539\u53d8\u60a8\u7684\u884c\u4e3a<\/h3>\n<p>\u9053\u6b49\u4e0d\u5e94\u8be5\u4ee5\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8bdd\u7ed3\u675f\uff0c\u5bf9\u4e0d\u8d77\u3002\u76f8\u53cd\uff0c\u8bba\u70b9\u5e94\u8be5\u4f7f\u60a8\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u548c\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u5fc5\u987b\u6539\u53d8\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u73b0\u5728\u5e94\u8be5\u5f88\u660e\u663e\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u8bf4\u62b1\u6b49\u5e76\u6ca1\u6709\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\u6216\u6539\u53d8\u60c5\u51b5\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u6539\u53d8\u884c\u4e3a\u5e76\u4e3a\u4e86\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u800c\u53d8\u5f97\u66f4\u597d\u3002[\u8bfb\uff1a<span\u6837\u5f0f=\u989c\u8272\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f\uff1b\u5b57\u4f53\u5927\u5c0f\uff1a\u8fd8\u539f;>\u6781\u5927\u7684\u53d8\u5316\u53ef\u4ee5\u6781\u5927\u5730\u6539\u5584\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb] <\/span> <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-26-Do-Stay\u4ee5\u51b2\u7a81\u4e3a\u4e2d\u5fc3> 26\u3002\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u4e13\u6ce8\u4e8e\u51b2\u7a81<\/h3>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u5728\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u6218\u6597\u65f6\uff0c\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u6446\u8131\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u51b2\u7a81\uff0c\u5c24\u5176\u662f\u5728\u5931\u8d25\u7684\u4e00\u9762\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5f00\u59cb\u4e89\u8bba\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u5982\u4f55\u8ba9\u60a8\u72ec\u81ea\u53c2\u52a0\u805a\u4f1a\uff0c\u5e76\u5c06\u6218\u6597\u4e00\u76f4\u62d6\u5230\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u65e0\u6d4e\u4e8e\u4e8b\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e0a\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u8fd9\u771f\u7684\u6709\u52a9\u4e8e\u60a8\u5728\u8fd9\u91cc\u63d0\u51fa\u89c2\u70b9\uff0c\u8fd8\u662f\u53ea\u662f\u5bfc\u81f4\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u6cae\u4e27\u5730\u5173\u95ed\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u59cb\u7ec8\u575a\u6301\u8ba9\u60a8\u4e0d\u9ad8\u5174\u6216\u6fc0\u6012\u60a8\u3002\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u4e13\u6ce8\u4e8e\u4e00\u4e2a\u65b9\u9762\u5e76\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u6574\u4e2a\u5730\u65b9\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = 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