{"id":147,"date":"2022-12-01T02:30:14","date_gmt":"2022-11-30T18:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.re123.top\/?p=147"},"modified":"2026-08-21T21:46:45","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T13:46:45","slug":"%e4%b8%8eex%ef%bc%9a50%e4%b8%aa%e6%a0%87%e5%bf%97%e5%92%8c%e6%ad%a5%e9%aa%a4%e9%87%8d%e6%96%b0%e8%81%9a%e5%9c%a8%e4%b8%80%e8%b5%b7%ef%bc%8c%e8%ae%a9%e4%bb%96%e4%bb%ac%e5%86%8d%e6%ac%a1%e7%88%b1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.re123.top\/index.php\/2022\/12\/01\/147\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4e0eEx\uff1a50\u4e2a\u6807\u5fd7\u548c\u6b65\u9aa4\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u8ba9\u4ed6\u4eec\u518d\u6b21\u7231\u60a8"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u5728to make-yours>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u540e\u6094\u5206\u624b\u5e76\u60f3\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u5219\u5e94\u8003\u8651\u6240\u6709\u8fd9\u4e9b\u6807\u5fd7\u548c\u9636\u6bb5\u4ee5\u4f7f\u5176\u6210\u4e3a\u60a8\u7684\u3002<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"792\" 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Clincher\u5728\u8fd9\u91cc\u662f\uff1a\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u611f\u89c9\u540c\u6837\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u600e\u4e48\u529e\uff1f\u5982\u679c\u662f\u8fd9\u79cd\u60c5\u51b5\uff0c\u90a3\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u963b\u6b62\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\uff1f\u53ea\u8981\u56de\u5230\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff01<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-5\u65f6\u95f4> 5\u3002\u65f6\u95f4<\/h3>\n<p>\u636e\u8bf4\u65f6\u95f4\u53ef\u4ee5\u6cbb\u6108\u6240\u6709\u4f24\u53e3\u3002\u901a\u5e38\uff0c\u4eba\u4eec\u53ea\u9700\u8981\u65f6\u95f4\u6765\u601d\u8003\uff0c\u65f6\u95f4\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u6446\u8131\uff0c\u6210\u957f\uff0c\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9519\u8bef\u5e76\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5931\u843d\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a10\u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\u8868\u660e\u60a8\u7684\u5ca9\u77f3\u5173\u7cfb\u503c\u5f97\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u673a\u4f1a] <\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u7ae5\u5e74\u7684\u7231\u4eba\uff0c\u4f46\u968f\u7740\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u6d41\u901d\uff0c\u60a8\u7ec8\u4e8e\u5fd8\u8bb0\u4e86\u4ec0\u4e48\u4f7f\u60a8\u5206\u624b\u4e86\uff0c\u60a8\u6240\u8bb0\u5f97\u7684\u53ea\u662f\u60a8\u80c3\u4e2d\u7684\u8774\u8776\u4ee5\u53ca\u60a8\u771f\u6b63\u7231\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u7a0b\u5ea6\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e00\u6bb5\u65f6\u95f4\u540e\uff0c\u4e16\u754c\u8f6c\u5411\u4e86\uff0c\u5b87\u5b99\u4ecd\u7136\u540c\u8c0b\u4f7f\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u91cd\u65b0\u5e26\u56de\u5230\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u3002\u4e5f\u8bb8\u4ee5\u524d\uff0c\u65f6\u673a\u521a\u521a\u5f00\u59cb\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u662f\u65f6\u5019\u91cd\u65b0\u5f00\u59cb\u4e86\u3002\u4e0d\u8981\u518d\u7b49\u4e00\u4e0b\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-6\u6ce2\u957f> 6\u3002\u6ce2\u957f<\/h3>\n<p>\u60a8\u559c\u6b22\u732b\uff0c\u4ed6\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eec\u8fc7\u654f\u3002\u4ed6\u559c\u6b22\u6ce2\u65af\u98df\u54c1\uff0c\u60a8\u65e0\u6cd5\u5fcd\u53d7\u9999\u6599\u7684\u6c14\u5473\u3002\u60a8\u559c\u6b22\u6709\u7ec4\u7ec7\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u4ed6\u5f88\u61d2\u60f0\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5bf9\u7acb\u662f\u5426\u5438\u5f15\u6216\u4e92\u76f8\u63a8\u52a8\uff1f\u5fc5\u987b\u77e5\u9053\u7684\u771f\u7406] <\/p>\n<p>\u4e0d\u517c\u5bb9\u662f\u5206\u88c2\u4e00\u5bf9\u592b\u5987\u7684\u4e3b\u8981\u9a71\u52a8\u529b\u4e4b\u4e00\u3002\u5982\u679c\u7ecf\u8fc7\u4e00\u6bb5\u65f6\u95f4\u540e\uff0c\u60a8\u4f1a\u6539\u53d8\u5185\u5fc3\uff0c\u800c\u6ce2\u65af\u7f8e\u98df\u4e0d\u53ef\u6297\u62d2\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u968f\u7740\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u6d41\u901d\uff0c\u4e8b\u60c5\u5c06\u4f1a\u6539\u53d8\uff0c\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u53d1\u73b0\u81ea\u5df1\u66f4\u613f\u610f\u9002\u5e94\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5dee\u5f02\u3002\u8fd9\u6b21\u5bf9\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u4f1a\u6709\u6240\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u6bd5\u7adf\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u53d1\u73b0\u81ea\u5df1\u6709\u66f4\u591a\u5171\u540c\u70b9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u66f4\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u968f\u7740\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u63a8\u79fb\u6539\u53d8\u4e3b\u610f\u548c\u4f18\u5148\u4e8b\u9879\uff0c\u5e76\u80fd\u591f\u5c06\u4e8b\u60c5\u5e26\u5165\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u89c6\u89d2\uff0c\u4ece\u800c\u4f7f\u60a8\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e4b\u95f4\u66f4\u597d\u5730\u5339\u914d\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4e0e\u60a8\u7684\u76f8\u5bf9\u7ea6\u4f1a - \u5982\u4f55\u77e5\u9053\u60a8\u662f\u5426\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f7f\u5b83\u9002\u5408\u60a8] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-7-Greener-Grass> 7\u3002\u7eff\u8349<\/h3>\n<p>\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u7ed3\u675f\u5df2\u7ecf\u5230\u6765\uff0c\u60a8\u8feb\u4e0d\u53ca\u5f85\u5730\u60f3\u518d\u6b21\u4e0e\u67d0\u4eba\u7ea6\u4f1a\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u5728\u4e00\u4e2a\u53c8\u4e00\u4e2a\u53c8\u4e00\u4e2a\u53c8\u4e00\u6b21\u5730\u7ea6\u4f1a\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u60a8\u5b81\u613f\u5fd8\u8bb0 * *\uff0c\u60a8\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u8349\u5728\u53e6\u4e00\u8fb9\u786e\u5b9e\u4e0d\u662f\u66f4\u7eff\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5b9e\u9645\u4e0a\uff0c\u7bf1\u7b06\u4e4b\u5916\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u6c89\u95f7\uff0c\u8150\u70c2\u7684\u8352\u539f\uff0c\u60a8\u5b81\u613f\u56de\u5230\u611f\u5230\u8212\u9002\uff0c\u5feb\u4e50\u548c\u6d3b\u7740\u7684\u5730\u65b9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u6b21\uff0c\u8df3\u8fc7\u7bf1\u7b06\uff0c\u56de\u5230\u8349\u5730\uff0c\u6d47\u6c34\uff0c\u517b\u80b2\u5b83\uff0c\u770b\u770b\u4f1a\u751f\u957f\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002\u7b80\u800c\u8a00\u4e4b\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u662f\u60a8\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u5feb\u4e50\u548c\u6ee1\u8db3\u611f\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u53bb\u5427\uff01[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u8bc1\u660e\u60a8\u4ecd\u7136\u786e\u5b9e\u9644\u7740\u5728\u524d\u4efb\u768410\u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-8\u5e74\u9f84\u548c\u59bb\u5b50> 8\u3002\u5e74\u9f84\u8f83\u5927\uff0c\u66f4\u660e\u667a<\/h3>\n<p>\u5e74\u8f7b\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u60a8\u503e\u5411\u4e8e\u4e0d\u6210\u719f\u548c\u51b2\u52a8\u3002\u5c0f\u4e8b\u901a\u5e38\u53ea\u662f\u7206\u53d1\u4e86\u5927\u578b\u6218\u6597\u3002\u76f4\u5230\u4f60\u4eec\u7ec8\u4e8e\u505a\u5230\u4e86\uff0c\u60a8\u624d\u5a01\u80c1\u8981\u5206\u624b\u51e0\u6b21\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u968f\u7740\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u6d41\u901d\uff0c\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u53d1\u73b0\u81ea\u5df1\u60f3\u77e5\u9053\u662f\u5426\u5e94\u8be5\u653e\u5f03\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5c0f\u4e8b\uff0c\u66f4\u52a0\u8010\u5fc3\u5e76\u575a\u6301\u4e0b\u53bb\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5df2\u7ecf\u7ed3\u675f\u4e86\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u73b0\u5728\u60a8\u5e74\u7eaa\u5927\uff0c\u66f4\u806a\u660e\uff0c\u60a8\u60f3\u7ed9\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4e00\u4e2a\u673a\u4f1a\uff0c\u786e\u4fe1\u5b83\u4f1a\u6709\u6240\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u8db3\u591f\u6210\u719f\uff0c\u4ee5\u81f3\u4e8e\u6ca1\u6709\u72af\u540c\u6837\u7684\u9519\u8bef\uff0c\u4ece\u800c\u5bfc\u81f4\u4e86\u7ed3\u675f\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u5173\u7cfb\u3002\u5982\u679c\u662f\u60a8\uff0c\u8bf7\u7ed9\u7231\u4e00\u4e2a\u673a\u4f1a\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u9010\u6b65\u6307\u5357\uff0c\u4f7f\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u7231\u4e0a\u60a8] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = h-9 believing in second-Chince> 9\u3002\u76f8\u4fe1\u7b2c\u4e8c\u673a\u4f1a<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u50cf\u8bb8\u591a\u4ecd\u7136\u76f8\u4fe1\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u548c\u7b2c\u4e8c\u6b21\u673a\u4f1a\u7684\u4eba\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e0d\u7ed9\u8ff7\u5931\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u673a\u4f1a\u5462\uff1f\u786e\u5b9e\u6ca1\u6709\u4e66\u9762\u89c4\u5219\uff0c\u60a8\u65e0\u6cd5\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e0d\u7ed9\u5176\u4ed6\u955c\u5934\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u77e5\u9053\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u72af\u4e86\u4e00\u4e2a\u9519\u8bef\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u4e5f\u6709\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7f3a\u70b9\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4e5f\u8bb8\u60a8\u613f\u610f\u539f\u8c05\uff0c\u5fd8\u8bb0\u548c\u524d\u8fdb\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u4ecd\u7136\u76f8\u4fe1\u81ea\u5df1\u53ef\u4ee5\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u613f\u610f\u52aa\u529b\u5efa\u7acb\u6210\u529f\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u7ee7\u7eed\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 id = h-10-it-was-the-the-Great-ever> 10\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u6709\u53f2\u4ee5\u6765\u6700\u4f1f\u5927\u7684<\/h3>\n<p>\u6ca1\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u6bd4\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u3002\u4e00\u65e6\u62e5\u6709\u5b83\uff0c\u5c31\u77e5\u9053\u4e86\uff01\u60a8\u77e5\u9053\u60a8\u627e\u5230\u4e86\u4e00\u4e2a\uff0c\u800c\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4e5f\u662f\u5982\u6b64\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u7531\u4e8e\u4e00\u4e2a\u6216\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u539f\u56e0\uff0c\u60a8\u5fc5\u987b\u8d70\u5206\u5f00\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a16\u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\u8868\u660e\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u59bb\u8ba4\u771f\u5e0c\u671b\u60a8\u56de\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d] <\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u8bd5\u56fe\u514b\u670d\u81ea\u5df1\u4ecd\u7136\u76f8\u4fe1\u7684\u7231\u662f\u60a8\u6709\u53f2\u4ee5\u6765\u6700\u4f1f\u5927\u7684\u7231\uff0c\u4f46\u6ca1\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u6548\u679c\u3002\u60a8\u53ea\u662f\u65e0\u6cd5\u514b\u670d\u90a3\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u60ca\u4eba\u7a0b\u5ea6\uff0c\u5c3d\u7ba1\u60a8\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u7f3a\u9677\uff0c\u4f46\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7a0b\u5ea6\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u5185\u5fc3\u6df1\u5904\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u62e5\u6709\u6700\u5927\u7684\u7231\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u7ee7\u7eed\u524d\u8fdb\uff0c\u8d62\u5f97\u524d\u4efb\u662f\u4e2a\u597d\u4e3b\u610f\uff01<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = h-11-come-come-to-think-It> 11\u3002\u60f3\u4e00\u60f3\u2026\u2026<\/h3>\n<p>\u65e0\u8bba\u60a8\u9047\u5230\u7684\u4e00\u5207\u90fd\u4e0d\u662f\u5c0f\u4e8b\uff0c\u4f46\u80af\u5b9a\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u89e3\u51b3\u7684\u3002\u4e5f\u8bb8\u60a8\u5206\u624b\u4e86\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u5f53\u60a8\u603b\u662f\u5e26\u4e0a\u7ba1\u8f96\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u5b83\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u7531\u4e8e\u7e41\u5fd9\u7684\u65e5\u7a0b\u5b89\u6392\uff0c\u60a8\u53ea\u662f\u7f3a\u5c11\u6d6a\u6f2b\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u5728\u60f3\u60a8\u5417\uff1f\u6ce8\u610f\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5fae\u5999\u7684\u8ff9\u8c61] <\/p>\n<p>\u4e00\u65e6\u5230\u8fbe\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u5e95\u90e8\uff0c\u60a8\u5c31\u4f1a\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u60a8\u65e2\u53ef\u4ee5\u59a5\u534f\uff0c\u53c8\u53ef\u4ee5\u5904\u7406\u65b0\u7248\u672c\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-12\u540c\u6b65> 12\u3002\u540c\u6b65<\/h3>\n<p>\u5f53\u4e8b\u60c5\u4e0d\u8d77\u4f5c\u7528\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u9636\u6bb5\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u9636\u6bb5\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u60a8\u53d1\u73b0\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u60f3\u8981\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u60a8\u7684\u4f18\u5148\u4e8b\u9879\u4e0d\u540c\u3002\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u770b\u5230\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u65e0\u5904\u4e0d\u5728\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u4eba\u4eec\u4f1a\u6539\u53d8\uff0c\u65e0\u8bba\u662f\u901a\u8fc7\u65f6\u95f4\u8fd8\u662f\u5728\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u53d1\u751f\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u6539\u53d8\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u610f\u613f\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u53ef\u80fd\u8fbe\u5230\u6210\u719f\u6c34\u5e73\uff0c\u4f7f\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u73b0\u5728\u5904\u4e8e\u76f8\u540c\u7684\u6ce2\u957f\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u627f\u8bfa\u6050\u60e7\u75c7\uff1a15\u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\uff0c\u60a8\u8fd8\u6ca1\u6709\u51c6\u5907\u597d\u63d0\u4ea4] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-13-\u53ef\u6469\u64e6\u5f0f> 13\u3002\u75db\u82e6\u7684\u5206\u5f00<\/h3>\n<p>\u5206\u624b\u662f\u7cdf\u7cd5\u7684\u8fd8\u662f\u53cb\u597d\u7684\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u5728\u60a8\u5206\u5f00\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u91cc\uff0c\u60a8\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u5f88\u75db\u82e6\uff0c\u60a8\u6709\u5f88\u5927\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\u8ba9\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u56de\u6765\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u751f\u6d3b\u4f3c\u4e4e\u4e0d\u503c\u5f97\u6ca1\u6709\u524d\u4efb\uff0c\u800c\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4e5f\u6709\u540c\u6837\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u6709\u8fd9\u79cd\u76f8\u4e92\u7684\u611f\u89c9\uff0c\u65e0\u8bba\u60a8\u4e89\u8bba\u591a\u5c11\uff0c\u751f\u6d3b\u4ecd\u7136\u5f7c\u6b64\u66f4\u597d\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-14-FORGIVES> 14\u3002\u5bbd\u6055<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u9996\u5148\u662f\u7531\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u53d1\u8d77\u7684\u5206\u624b\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e86\u89e3\u4ed6\u4eec\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u7684\u770b\u6cd5\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u540e\u6094\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9519\u8bef\u5417\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u4ed6\u4eec\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u62b1\u6b49\u53d1\u751f\u4e86\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e8b\u5417\uff1f\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u662f\u72af\u9519\u7684\u805a\u4f1a\uff0c\u60a8\u662f\u5426\u771f\u7684\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u611f\u5230re\u6094\u548c\u62b1\u6b49\uff1f[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u60a8\u5e94\u8be5\u539f\u8c05\u548c\u5fd8\u8bb0\u5417\uff1f15\u9075\u5faa\u7684\u51c6\u5219] <\/p>\n<p>\u4e3a\u4e86\u8ba9\u60a8\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u5e76\u4ece\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u4e2d\u7ee7\u7eed\u524d\u8fdb\uff0c\u5fc5\u987b\u5efa\u7acb\u5bbd\u6055\uff0c\u800c\u505a\u9519\u7684\u4eba\u5e94\u8be5\u4f7f\u81ea\u5df1\u5f25\u8865\u4ed6\u4eec\u6240\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u518d\u4e5f\u4e0d\u4f1a\u72af\u540c\u6837\u7684\u9519\u8bef\u3002<\/ <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-15\u79d2\u7684\u673a\u4f1a> 15\u3002\u7b2c\u4e8c\u673a\u4f1a<\/h3>\n<p>\u65e0\u8bba\u4f60\u4eec\u4e92\u76f8\u6218\u6597\u548c\u4ec7\u6068\u591a\u4e48\u7cdf\u7cd5\uff0c\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u8ba4\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4ecd\u7136\u503c\u5f97\u4e3a\u4e4b\u594b\u6597\u3002\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u70ed\u5207\u5730\u76f8\u4fe1\u7b2c\u4e8c\u6b21\u673a\u4f1a\uff0c\u6bd5\u7adf\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u503c\u5f97\u91cd\u65b0\u71c3\u8d77\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u65e0\u8bba\u5df2\u7ecf\u8fc7\u53bb\u4e86\u51e0\u5929\u8fd8\u662f\u5f88\u591a\u5e74\uff0c\u5f53\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e92\u76f8\u770b\u65f6\uff0c\u4ecd\u7136\u76f8\u4fe1\u8fd9\u6b21\u60a8\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f7f\u5b83\u53d8\u5f97\u66f4\u597d\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u6700\u597d\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5206\u624b\u4ee5\u5316\u5986\uff1a\u7ed9\u7231\u768410\u79cd\u65b9\u6cd5] <\/p>\n<p><H2 ID = H-truggles-back-together>\u6323\u624e\u6323\u624e<\/h2>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u8003\u8651\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u4e00\u8d77\u91cd\u65b0\u642d\u914d\u662f\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u51b3\u5b9a\uff0c\u8bf7\u8003\u8651\u4ece\u8fd9\u91cc\u53bb\u54ea\u91cc\u3002\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u5e76\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4ece\u90a3\u4ee5\u540e\uff0c\u60a8\u5f53\u7136\u9700\u8981\u8003\u8651\u8bb8\u591a\u969c\u788d\u3002<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u5206\u624b\u4e0d\u90a3\u4e48\u987a\u7545\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u4f24\u5bb3\u7684\u5355\u8bcd\u548c\u6ce5\u6cde\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u8003\u8651\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u5e94\u8be5\u8003\u8651\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u662f\u6700\u597d\u7684\u9009\u62e9\uff1a<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-1-HIT-REWIND> 1\u3002\u5012\u5e26\uff1f<\/h3>\n<p>\u60f3\u5ff5\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u5e76\u60f3\u91cd\u65b0\u70b9\u71c3\u65e7\u706b\u7130\u662f\u5f88\u6b63\u5e38\u7684 - \u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u5e94\u8be5\u5417\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u5f53\u60a8\u65e2\u4e89\u8bba\u53c8\u5206\u624b\u65f6\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u6fc0\u70c8\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\u3002\u53cc\u65b9\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u6709\u75db\u82e6\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u7684\u8bdd\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5355\u8bcd\u7684\u529b\u91cf\u53ef\u4ee5\u5efa\u7acb\u6216\u7834\u574f\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb] <\/p>\n<p>\u5bf9\u4e8e\u67d0\u4e9b\u4eba\u6765\u8bf4\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u53ef\u80fd\u5b58\u5728\u5a01\u80c1\uff0c\u5c34\u5c2c\uff0c\u516b\u5366\u548c\u66b4\u529b\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8bdd\u4e0d\u80fd\u6ca1\u6709\u8bf4\u660e\uff0c\u4e5f\u65e0\u6cd5\u64a4\u6d88\u8fd9\u4e9b\u884c\u52a8\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u7531\u4e8e\u4e24\u7aef\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u771f\u8bda\u548c\u5bbd\u6055\uff0c\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u90fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u7ee7\u7eed\u524d\u8fdb\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-2\u7834\u574f\u65b0\u95fb> 2\u3002\u6253\u7834\u65b0\u95fb<\/h3>\n<p>\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u5728\u544a\u8bc9\u6240\u6709\u4eba\u60a8\u5982\u4f55\u8ba8\u538c\u524d\u4efb\u7684\u80c6\u91cf\u5e76\u57fa\u672c\u4e0a\u9119\u89c6\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u4e00\u5207\u2026\u2026\u60a8\u5c06\u5982\u4f55\u6253\u7834\u60a8\u53c8\u56de\u6765\u7684\u6d88\u606f\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u53ef\u80fd\u6709\u70b9\u5c34\u5c2c\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u5bf9\u6700\u63a5\u8fd1\u60a8\u7684\u4eba\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u89e3\u91ca\u3002\u60a8\u6700\u597d\u7684\u9009\u62e9\uff1f\u8001\u5b9e\u8bf4\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a13\u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\u8868\u660e\u60a8\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u6b63\u5728\u7834\u574f\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb] <\/p>\n<h3 id = h-3\u6539\u53d8\u4e86\u4f60\u7684\u7236\u6bcd -  opinion> 3\u3002\u6539\u53d8\u7236\u6bcd\u7684\u610f\u89c1<\/h3>\n<p>\u8fd8\u6709\u95ee\u9898\u8981\u6539\u53d8\u7236\u6bcd\u5bf9\u524d\u4efb\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u5728\u4ed6\u4eec\u56de\u5bb6\u54ed\u6ce3\u548c\u6124\u6012\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u544a\u8bc9\u4ed6\u4eec\u524d\u4efb\u6240\u505a\u7684\u6240\u6709\u53ef\u6015\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u4e4b\u540e - \u4e5f\u8bb8 - \u65b9\u4fbf\u5730\u5938\u5927\u4e86\u60a8\u7684\u6545\u4e8b\uff0c\u4ee5\u4f7f\u5f53\u65f6\u7684\u5408\u4f5c\u4f19\u4f34\u5728\u4e0d\u826f\u7684\u5149\u7ebf\u4e0b\u753b\u753b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6240\u4ee5\u73b0\u5728\u60a8\u56de\u5230\u4e86\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u5982\u4f55\u518d\u6b21\u50cf\u524d\u4efb\u4e00\u6837\u4f7f\u5b83\u4eec\u50cf\u524d\u4efb\u4e00\u6837\uff1f\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u544a\u8bc9\u4f60\u53bb\u627e\u522b\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-4-\u9006\u53d8\u98ce\u9669> 4\u3002\u758f\u8fdc\u98ce\u9669<\/h3>\n<p>\u5728\u6240\u6709\u620f\u5267\u548c\u773c\u6cea\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u5c06\u4f1a\u6709\u670b\u53cb\u652f\u6301\u60a8\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u91cd\u8fd4\u7684\u51b3\u5b9a\u3002\u8fd8\u6709\u90a3\u4e9b\u53ef\u80fd\u8ba4\u4e3a\u60a8\u75af\u4e86\u7684\u4eba\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u901a\u8fc7\u5206\u624b\u5e2e\u52a9\u4e00\u4e2a\u7537\u4eba\uff0c\u6210\u4e3a\u4ed6\u9700\u8981\u7684\u597d\u670b\u53cb] <\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5192\u5931\u53bb\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u4fe1\u4efb\u7684\u98ce\u9669\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u4ed6\u4eec\u5c06\u6765\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u4f1a\u843d\u540e\u4e8e\u60a8\u7684\u51b3\u5b9a\u3002\u4e0b\u6b21\u60a8\u63a5\u89e6\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u65f6\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u8fd8\u4f1a\u5632\u7b11\u60a8\u7684\u56f0\u5883\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u518d\u6b21\u6210\u4e3a\u60a8\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-5-Social-Media-Fuss> 5\u3002\u793e\u4ea4\u5a92\u4f53\u5927\u60ca\u5c0f\u602a<\/h3>\n<p>\u5f53\u7136\uff0c\u518d\u6b21\u5728\u793e\u4ea4\u5a92\u4f53\u4e0a\u91cd\u65b0\u6dfb\u52a0\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u9ebb\u70e6\u3002\u800c\u4e14\uff0c\u7531\u4e8e\u6ca1\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u79d8\u5bc6\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u4eba\u4eec\u4f1a\u6ce8\u610f\u5230\u8fd9\u4e00\u70b9\uff0c\u4e5f\u5f00\u59cb\u5728\u60a8\u7684\u80cc\u540e\u8bf4\u8bdd\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4e0d\u662f\u5168\u90e8\uff0c\u60a8\u5c06\u4e0d\u5f97\u4e0d\u518d\u6b21\u6539\u53d8\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u72b6\u6001\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e0d\u4f1a\u88ab\u654f\u9510\u5730\u5173\u6ce8\u4ed6\u4eec\u901a\u77e5\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u6240\u5ffd\u89c6\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u793e\u4ea4\u5a92\u4f53\u6740\u6b7b\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-6-room-for-dobt> 6\u3002\u6000\u7591\u7684\u7a7a\u95f4<\/h3>\n<p>\u5728\u5206\u624b\u5f15\u8d77\u7684\u6240\u6709\u9ebb\u70e6\u548c\u5fc3\u75db\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u5c06\u4e0d\u518d\u76f8\u540c\u3002\u4f60\u4eec\u90fd\u53ef\u80fd\u8d28\u7591\u548c\u89e3\u7684\u771f\u6b63\u52a8\u673a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u7814\u7a76\u8868\u660e\uff0c\u90a3\u4e9b\u7ecf\u5386\u4e86\u5206\u624b\u5e76\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u8fd4\u56de\u7684\u4eba\u5177\u6709\u66f4\u9ad8\u7684\u4e0d\u4fe1\u4efb\u8d8b\u52bf\u3002\u809a\u5b50\u91cc\u7684\u90a3\u4e2a\u5c0f\u5c0f\u7684\u6000\u7591\u7403\u6c38\u8fdc\u5b58\u5728\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u56de\u5230\u4e00\u8d77\u7684\u5934\u51e0\u5929\u6216\u51e0\u5468\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u8ba9\u60a8\u611f\u5230\u8d8a\u8fc7\u6708\u7403\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u8111\u540e\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u6709\u90a3\u79cd\u58f0\u97f3\u95ee\uff0c\u8fd9\u6b21\u8fd9\u6b21\u6301\u7eed\u4e86\u591a\u957f\u65f6\u95f4\uff1f\u60a8\u60f3\u548c\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e0d\u5b8c\u5168\u4fe1\u4efb\u60a8\u7684\u4eba\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u5417\uff1f<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-7-IS-IT-A-New-Ry-Rypationship> 7\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u65b0\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u5417\uff1f<\/h3>\n<p>\u867d\u7136\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u6c89\u8ff7\u4e8e\u8fc7\u53bb\u5e76\u8ba9\u5b83\u56f0\u6270\u60a8\uff0c\u4f46\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u5fc5\u987b\u505a\u51fa\u6709\u610f\u8bc6\u7684 *\u548c\u989d\u5916\u7684\u52aa\u529b *\u91cd\u65b0\u5f00\u59cb\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5f53\u9003\u8131\u7684\u4eba\u56de\u6765\u65f6\u8be5\u600e\u4e48\u529e] <\/p>\n<p>\u5b83\u4f1a\u50cf\u65b0\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u5417\uff1f\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u5fc5\u987b\u5f04\u6e05\u695a\u90a3\u4e2a\u3002\u4e0d\u8fc7\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u80af\u5b9a\u7684\u662f\uff1a\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u50cf\u4ee5\u524d\u4fdd\u6301\u539f\u6837\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u4e0d\u8fdb\u884c\u66f4\u6539\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u5c31\u6ce8\u5b9a\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<h2 id = h-must-rust-knowle-to-to-to-to-togeth-together-ex-ex>\u5fc5\u987b\u77e5\u9053\u4e0eex <\/h2>\n<p>\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u7684\u89c4\u5219<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u5f88\u96be\uff0c\u60a8\u60f3\u8981\u5b83\u4eec\u7684\u6837\u5b50\u3002\u4f46\u662f\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u662f\u4e00\u6b21\u3002\u73b0\u5728\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u574f\u4e8b\uff0c\u8fd9\u662f\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u4e00\u90e8\u5206\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u60f3\u56de\u5230\u8fd9\u79cd\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u5e0c\u671b\u5b83\u80fd\u6301\u7eed\u4e0b\u53bb\uff0c\u90a3\u5c06\u9700\u8981\u4e00\u4e9b\u8ba4\u771f\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u5e0c\u671b\u4ed6\u4eec\u5982\u6b64\u4e4b\u591a\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u542c\u8d77\u6765\u60a8\u613f\u610f\u4ed8\u51fa\u52aa\u529b\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4e0eEx\u8fd4\u56de\u65f6\uff0c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u7f13\u6162\u800c\u7a33\u5b9a\u662f\u5173\u952e] <\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u5e0c\u671b\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u9000\u56de\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u6000\u62b1\u4e4b\u524d\uff0c\u5219\u5e94\u9075\u5faa\u4e00\u4e9b\u89c4\u5219\u3002\u60a8\u4e0d\u60f3\u518d\u5206\u624b\u3002\u4e3a\u4e86\u60a8\u7684\u5185\u5fc3\uff0c\u8bf7\u5b66\u4e60\u6539\u5584\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u89c4\u5219\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u60a8\u53ef\u4ee5\u91c7\u53d6\u7684\u6b65\u9aa4\u4f7f\u5b83\u8d77\u4f5c\u7528\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 id = h-1-think-about-it-serion> 1\u3002\u8ba4\u771f\u8003\u8651\u4e00\u4e0b<\/h3>\n<p>\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u8003\u8651\u8fd9\u662f\u5426\u662f\u4e2a\u597d\u4e3b\u610f\u3002\u5f53\u7136\uff0c\u60a8\u73b0\u5728\u5f88\u6fc0\u52a8\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u60a8\u8fd8\u9700\u8981\u601d\u8003\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8fd9\u79cd\u5173\u7cfb\u5982\u4f55\uff1f\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u9ad8\u5174\u5417\uff1f\u66f4\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u8ba9\u60a8\u9996\u5148\u5206\u624b\uff1f[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u88ab\u6b3a\u9a97\u65f6\u5982\u4f55\u4fee\u590d\u635f\u574f] <\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u8fd9\u662f\u4e25\u91cd\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\u4f5c\u5f0a\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u771f\u6b63\u8ba4\u4e3a\u8fd9\u662f\u9002\u5408\u60a8\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-2-you-both-to-to-Want-it> 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5\u3002\u653e\u5f00\u8fc7\u53bb<\/h3>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u60f3\u8d77\u4f5c\u7528\uff0c\u60a8\u5c06\u65e0\u6cd5\u575a\u6301\u4ed6\u4eec\u8fc7\u53bb\u6240\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u653e\u624b\u5427\uff01\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u60f3\u8ba9\u4ed6\u4eec\u56de\u6765\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u4ed6\u4eec\u6b3a\u9a97\u4e86\u60a8\uff0c\u4e5f\u9700\u8981\u653e\u624b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u73b0\u5728\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4ed6\u4eec\u6b3a\u9a97\u4e86\u60a8\uff0c\u60a8\u4e0d\u5e94\u8be5\u56de\u53bb\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5982\u679c\u8fd9\u662f\u60a8\u60f3\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u60a8\u5c06\u65e0\u6cd5\u5c06\u5176\u63e1\u5728\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u5934\u4e0a\u3002\u60a8\u6b63\u5728\u51b3\u5b9a\u518d\u6b21\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eec\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u8981\u653e\u5f03\u8fc7\u53bb\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u5728\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u5c0a\u91cd\u548c\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u7231] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-6-reate-boundaries> 6\u3002\u521b\u5efa\u8fb9\u754c<\/h3>\n<p>\u662f\u7684\uff0c\u8fb9\u754c\u3002\u521b\u5efa\u8fb9\u754c\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u542c\u8d77\u6765\u5f88\u523a\u8033\u3002\u4f46\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u9700\u8981\u4ed6\u4eec\uff01\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u4ece\u8fc7\u53bb\u5b66\u5230\u4e86\u5b66\u5230\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u5c31\u975e\u5e38\u4e86\u89e3\u9700\u8981\u5b9e\u65bd\u7684\u8fb9\u754c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\u5982\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u5728\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e2d\u82b1\u8d39\u592a\u591a\u65f6\u95f4\u662f\u5206\u624b\u7684\u539f\u56e0\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u627f\u8bfa\u51cf\u5c11\u5de5\u4f5c\u65f6\u95f4\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u5173\u4e8e\u59a5\u534f\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 id = h-7- what-wht-you want-this-this-is-Rysivationship> 7\u3002\u60a8\u60f3\u4ece\u8fd9\u79cd\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\uff1f<\/h3>\n<p>\u5728\u67d0\u4e2a\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u8003\u8651\u4e0e\u6b64\u4eba\u7684\u76ee\u6807\u3002\u4f60\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u8981\u56de\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\u8eab\u8fb9\uff1f\u60a8\u5982\u4f55\u770b\u5f85\u4e24\u5e74\u540e\u8fd9\u79cd\u5173\u7cfb\u53d1\u5c55\uff1f5\u5e74\uff1f[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u592b\u5987\u76ee\u6807 - \u5728\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u60a8\u60f3\u8981\u768427\u4e2a\u771f\u5b9e\u548c\u865a\u5047\u7684\u4e1c\u897f] <\/p>\n<p>\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u8ba4\u771f\u8ba8\u8bba\u8fd9\u79cd\u5173\u7cfb\u4ee5\u53ca\u60a8\u5bf9\u6b64\u7684\u671f\u671b\u3002\u5426\u5219\uff0c\u56de\u5230\u4e00\u8d77\u662f\u6beb\u65e0\u610f\u4e49\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-8-LEARN-HOLW-HOW-wow-to-Communicate> 8\u3002\u5b66\u4e60\u5982\u4f55\u4ea4\u6d41<\/h3>\n<p>\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u8ba4\u4e3a\u60a8\u77e5\u9053\u5982\u4f55\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u4f46\u60a8\u5374\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u5426\u5219\u60a8\u4ecd\u7136\u4f1a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u3002\u53ef\u80fd\u5bfc\u81f4\u5173\u7cfb\u7ed3\u675f\u7684\u5927\u591a\u6570\u95ee\u9898\u6e90\u4e8e\u7f3a\u4e4f\u6c9f\u901a\u6216\u6c9f\u901a\u4e0d\u7545\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u65e0\u8bba\u54ea\u79cd\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u8bf7\u5f04\u6e05\u695a\u4ec0\u4e48\u5728\u8fd9\u65b9\u9762\u4e0d\u8d77\u4f5c\u7528\u3002\u60a8\u662f\u5426\u8ba9\u6240\u6709\u74f6\u5b50\u90fd\u653e\u5728\u91cc\u9762\uff1f\u60a8\u5982\u4f55\u8868\u8fbe\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff1f[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u592b\u59bb\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\u7ec3\u4e60 - \u8f7b\u677e\u6210\u4e3a\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u60c5\u4eba] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-9-cocus-on-Inimacy> 9\u3002\u4e13\u6ce8\u4e8e\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb<\/h3>\n<p>\u5bf9\u4e8e\u65ad\u5f00\u8fde\u63a5\u7684\u592b\u5987\u6765\u8bf4\uff0c\u8fd9\u59cb\u7ec8\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u65e0\u8bba\u51fa\u4e8e\u4f55\u79cd\u539f\u56e0\uff0c\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u90fd\u6709\u65ad\u5f00\u8fde\u63a5\u5bfc\u81f4\u60a8\u7684\u5206\u624b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u9700\u8981\u540c\u610f\u4e13\u6ce8\u4e8e\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u3002\u8fd9\u4e0d\u4ec5\u4ec5\u662f\u5173\u4e8e\u6027\u7684\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u4ec5\u4ec5\u662f\u8fd9\u6837\u3002\u5b83\u662f\u63a5\u543b\uff0c\u62e5\u62b1\uff0c\u89e6\u6478\u548c\u7b11\u3002\u53ea\u662f\u7ecf\u5386\u4e86\u5145\u6ee1\u7231\u7684\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u3002<\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-10-Elways-Be-Honest> 10\u3002\u6c38\u8fdc\u8bda\u5b9e<\/h3>\n<p>\u8fd9\u5f88\u96be\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u5bf9\u4f34\u4fa3\u4e0d\u8bda\u5b9e\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u53ef\u4ee5\u548c\u8c01\u8bda\u5b9e\uff1f\u4ece\u8fd9\u4e00\u70b9\u5f00\u59cb\uff0c\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u5c31\u60a8\u662f\u5426\u8981\u7ec3\u4e60\u8bda\u5b9e\u505a\u51fa\u51b3\u5b9a\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u4e0d\u613f\u610f\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u8fd9\u4e0d\u662f\u9002\u5408\u60a8\u7684\u5408\u9002\u4eba\u9009\u3002\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u51b3\u5b9a\u8bf4\u5b9e\u8bdd\uff0c\u60a8\u4f1a\u770b\u5230\u60a8\u7684\u6574\u4e2a\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\u53d8\u5f97\u66f4\u597d\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u60a8\u4e0d\u5e94\u5728\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u4e0d\u5e94\u59a5\u534f\u7684\u975e\u4e89\u8bae] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-11-Be-Patient> 11\u3002\u8010\u5fc3<\/h3>\n<p>\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5728\u4e00\u591c\u4e4b\u95f4\u5b8c\u7f8e\u3002\u60a8\u5206\u4eab\u8fc7\u53bb\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u60a8\u9700\u8981\u5904\u7406\u5bfc\u81f4\u5206\u624b\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u52a0\u4e0a\uff0c\u5728\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u5230\u8fbe\u4e00\u4e2a\u597d\u5730\u65b9\u603b\u662f\u9700\u8981\u65f6\u95f4\u3002\u60a8\u5c06\u4e0d\u5f97\u4e0d\u518d\u6b21\u91cd\u65b0\u8fde\u63a5\u5e76\u5efa\u7acb\u4e22\u5931\u7684\u4fe1\u4efb\u3002<\/p>\n<h2 id=h-how-to-get-your-ex-back-after-the-relationship-ended>How to get your ex back after the relationship ended<\/h2>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u5df2\u7ecf\u51b3\u5b9a\u60a8\u771f\u7684\u5e94\u8be5\u4e0e\u524d\u4efb\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77 - \u5e76\u4e14\u60a8\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u7279\u5b9a\u7684\u524d\u4efb - \u8fd9\u5c31\u662f\u60a8\u53ef\u4ee5\u5c1d\u8bd5\u56de\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\u7231\u7684\u624b\u81c2\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e00\u65e6\u4e0b\u5b9a\u51b3\u5fc3\u5c31\u5c1d\u8bd5\u4ee5\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u7231\u7ed9\u5b83\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u955c\u5934\uff0c\u60a8\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u6309\u7167\u4ee5\u4e0b\u6b65\u9aa4\u548c\u9636\u6bb5\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u4ee5\u786e\u4fdd\u505a\u5bf9\u4e86\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4ecd\u7136\u60f3\u8981\u60a8\u5417\uff1f\u5982\u4f55\u89e3\u7801\u4ed6\u4eec\u6700\u6df1\u7684\u6b32\u671b] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-1\u542f\u52a8 - \u4e0eAn-Apology> 1\u3002\u9996\u5148\u9053\u6b49<\/h3>\n<p>\u8fd9\u53ea\u6709\u5728\u5206\u624b\u7684\u4f24\u53e3\u4ecd\u7136\u5f88\u65b0\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u4e0b\u624d\u9002\u7528\u3002\u5206\u624b\u662f\u53cc\u5411\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u5373\u4f7f\u662f\u7531\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u9020\u6210\u7684\uff0c\u60a8\u4ecd\u7136\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u653e\u5f00\u60a8\u5e0c\u671b\u6536\u56de\u7684\u5355\u8bcd\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4e3a\u4e86\u4f7f\u60a8\u91cd\u65b0\u56de\u5230\u524d\u4efb\u7684\u826f\u597d\u6069\u5178\u4e2d\uff0c\u4e3a\u60a8\u6240\u8bf4\u7684\u8bdd\u800c\u9053\u6b49\u5e76\u4e3a\u60a8\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u9020\u6210\u8d21\u732e\u603b\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u597d\u4e3b\u610f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5c3d\u53ef\u80fd\u771f\u8bda\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u53ef\u80fd\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u5c1d\u8bd5\u4eb2\u81ea\u505a\u8fd9\u4ef6\u4e8b\u3002\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4f3c\u4e4e\u6709\u5174\u8da3\u4e0e\u60a8\u4ea4\u8c08\u7684\u4e8b\u5b9e\u53ef\u80fd\u8868\u660e\u4ed6\u4eec\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u5e26\u60a8\u56de\u6765\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u8c01\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u60a8\u751a\u81f3\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u90a3\u65f6\u548c\u90a3\u91cc\u8fdb\u884c\u8c03\u548c\uff01[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a28\u79cd\u8877\u5fc3\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u8bf4\u60a8\u5bf9\u4e0d\u8d77\uff0c\u5e76\u5411\u60a8\u6240\u7231\u7684\u4eba\u9053\u6b49] 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2\u3002\u5982\u679c\u5206\u624b\u4e0d\u662f\u6700\u65b0\u7684\uff0c\u8bf7\u53d1\u9001\u60a8\u7684Ex\u6587\u5b57\u6216\u79c1\u4eba\u6d88\u606f<\/h3>\n<p>\u6253\u7535\u8bdd\u6216\u53ea\u662f\u51fa\u73b0\u5728\u60a8\u524d\u4efb\u7684\u4f4d\u7f6e\u53ef\u80fd\u592a\u5411\u524d\u4e14\u592a\u5bf9\u6297\u4e86\u3002\u8fd9\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u4f7f\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u5b8c\u5168\u9632\u5fa1\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ea\u4f1a\u5728\u60a8\u63d0\u51fa\u518d\u6b21\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u7684\u53ef\u80fd\u6027\u4e4b\u524d\u5c06\u60a8\u51fb\u5012\u3002\u901a\u5e38\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u53d1\u9001\u4e00\u6761\u6d88\u606f\uff0c\u6700\u597d\u7ed9\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u4e00\u4e9b\u65f6\u95f4\u8003\u8651\u662f\u5426\u56de\u590d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u8db3\u591f\u53cb\u597d\u5730\u56de\u7b54\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u592a\u597d\u4e86\uff01\u5982\u679c\u6ca1\u6709\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u592a\u4e2a\u4eba\u5316\u3002\u60a8\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u6000\u7591\u60a8\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5c1d\u8bd5\u5728\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u65f6\u95f4\u53d1\u9001\u53e6\u4e00\u6761\u6d88\u606f\uff0c\u5e76\u4fdd\u6301\u624b\u6307\u4ea4\u53c9\uff0c\u60a8\u4f1a\u5f97\u5230\u7b54\u590d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u5728\u5927\u7ea6\u4e09\u6761\u6d88\u606f\u4e2d\u8de8\u8d8a\u4e00\u4e24\u5468\u7684\u8fc7\u7a0b\u4e2d\uff0c\u60a8\u4ecd\u7136\u6ca1\u6709\u56de\u7b54\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u91cd\u65b0\u805a\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\u662f\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u7684\u3002[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u901a\u8fc7\u6587\u5b57\u95ee\u67d0\u4eba\u5e76\u83b7\u5f97\u6ee1\u610f\u7684\u662f] <\/p>\n<p><H3 ID = H-3-ask-your-ex-ex-out-the-phone> 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<\/p>\n<h3 id = h-4 reconnect-with your-ex-s-friends> 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