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E.\u3001Aron, A. \u548c Brown, L. L.\uff0c2005\uff0c\u6d6a\u6f2b\u7231\u60c5\uff1a\u62e9\u5076\u795e\u7ecf\u673a\u5236\u7684\u529f\u80fd\u78c1\u5171\u632f\u6210\u50cf\u7814\u7a76 <\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-long-does-it-take-men-to-fall-in-love-nbsp\">\n  <span id=\"How_long_does_it_take_men_to_fall_in_love\">\u7537\u4eba\u604b\u7231\u9700\u8981\u591a\u957f\u65f6\u95f4\uff1f\u00a0<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e00\u4e9b\u6d88\u606f\u6765\u6e90\u79f0\uff0c\u7537\u4eba\u53ef\u4ee5\u5728\u51e0\u79d2\u949f\u5185\u9677\u5165\u60c5\u6b32\uff0c\u5b9e\u9645\u4e0a\u662f 8.2 \u79d2\uff0c\u4f46\u8fd9\u4e2a\u6570\u5b57\u4f3c\u4e4e\u66f4\u50cf\u662f\u90fd\u5e02\u4f20\u8bf4\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u5b9e\u9a8c\u5ba4\u7ed3\u679c\u3002\u5c3d\u7ba1\u5982\u6b64\uff0c\u7537\u6027\u786e\u5b9e\u6bd4\u5973\u6027\u66f4\u5feb\u5730\u4ea7\u751f\u6d6a\u6f2b\u5174\u8da3\uff0c\u5c24\u5176\u662f\u5f53\u6d89\u53ca\u8eab\u4f53\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u65f6\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u6b32\u671b\u4e0e\u7231\u60c5\uff1a21 \u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\u6765\u51c6\u786e\u4e86\u89e3\u4f60\u4eec\u5bf9\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u611f\u53d7]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u867d\u7136\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u6ca1\u6709\u79d2\u8868\uff0c\u4f46\u591a\u9879\u7814\u7a76\u8868\u660e\uff0c\u7537\u6027\u5f80\u5f80\u6bd4\u5973\u6027\u5760\u843d\u5f97\u66f4\u5feb\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u4ed6\u4eec\u66f4\u6709\u53ef\u80fd\u7b2c\u4e00\u4e2a\u8bf4\u201c\u6211\u7231\u4f60\u201d\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e8b\u5b9e\u4e0a\uff0c\u7814\u7a76\u4eba\u5458\u53d1\u73b0 <strong>\u7537\u4eba\u6bd4\u5973\u4eba\u66f4\u65e9\u8868\u767d<\/strong>\uff0c\u6311\u6218\u5973\u6027\u662f\u66f4\u5584\u4e8e\u8868\u8fbe\u60c5\u611f\u7684\u6027\u522b\u7684\u523b\u677f\u5370\u8c61\u3002 \ud83d\udcda \u8d44\u6599\u6765\u6e90\uff1aChristopher D. 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R., 2000\uff0c\u6210\u4eba\u6d6a\u6f2b\u4f9d\u604b <\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-factors-that-affect-how-long-it-takes-someone-to-fall-in-love\">\n  <span id=\"Factors_that_affect_how_long_it_takes_someone_to_fall_in_love\">\u5f71\u54cd\u67d0\u4eba\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u9700\u8981\u591a\u957f\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u56e0\u7d20<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u7136\uff0c\u5e76\u975e\u6240\u6709\u7537\u6027\u548c\u5973\u6027\u90fd\u662f\u4e00\u6837\u7684\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u662f\u6709\u81ea\u5df1\u751f\u6d3b\u7ecf\u5386\u7684\u4e2a\u4f53\uff0c\u8fd9\u4f7f\u6211\u4eec\u72ec\u4e00\u65e0\u4e8c\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u5f88\u96be\u4e00\u6982\u800c\u8bba\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u6709\u4e00\u4e9b\u4e00\u822c\u56e0\u7d20\u4f1a\u5f71\u54cd\u67d0\u4eba\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u6240\u9700\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u6211\u7231\u5979\u5417\uff1f 48 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6b63\u5982\u6211\u4eec\u521a\u624d\u8ba8\u8bba\u7684\uff0c\u7537\u6027\u901a\u5e38\u6bd4\u5973\u6027\u66f4\u5feb\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u3002\u9020\u6210\u8fd9\u79cd\u60c5\u51b5\u7684\u539f\u56e0\u53ef\u80fd\u6709\u6240\u4e0d\u540c\u3002\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u4e9b\u5305\u62ec\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u6709\u6b32\u671b\u7684\u6210\u5206\u8fd9\u4e00\u4e8b\u5b9e\u3002\u7537\u6027\u6bd4\u5973\u6027\u66f4\u613f\u610f\u201c\u4f20\u64ad\u79cd\u5b50\u201d\u3002\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u7537\u6027\u66f4\u5bb9\u6613\u611f\u5230\u6027\u6b32\u65fa\u76db\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u4e00\u5f00\u59cb\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u7f3a\u4e4f\u903b\u8f91\u63a7\u5236\u3002\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u8bf4\u6709\u4e9b\u5973\u6027\u4e0d\u8fd9\u6837\u505a\uff0c\u4f46\u4ece\u751f\u7269\u5b66\u89d2\u5ea6\u6765\u770b\uff0c\u5979\u4eec\u6bd4\u7537\u6027\u66f4\u6709\u6d1e\u5bdf\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-your-relationship-with-your-parents\">\n  <span id=\"3_Your_relationship_with_your_parents\">3.\u4f60\u548c\u7236\u6bcd\u7684\u5173\u7cfb<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5728\u7ae5\u5e74\u65f6\u671f\u4e0e\u7167\u987e\u8005\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4f60\u5728\u6210\u5e74\u540e\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u66f4\u5feb\u5730\u7231\u4e0a\u67d0\u4eba\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u76f4\u5347\u673a\u7236\u6bcd\u2014\u2014\u4ed6\u4eec\u6bc1\u6389\u5b69\u5b50\u751f\u6d3b\u7684 30 \u79cd\u65b9\u5f0f]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u5b69\u5b50\u88ab\u5265\u593a\u4e86\u7236\u6bcd\u7684\u7231\u548c\u5173\u6ce8\u65f6\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u5c31\u4f1a\u5411\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u5bfb\u6c42\u7231\u548c\u5173\u6ce8\u3002<\/p>\n<p 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class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-humans-are-psychologically-wired-to-develop-connections\">\n  <span id=\"1_Humans_are_psychologically_wired_to_develop_connections\">1. \u4eba\u7c7b\u5728\u5fc3\u7406\u4e0a\u503e\u5411\u4e8e\u5efa\u7acb\u8054\u7cfb<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u5927\u8111\u4e2d\u6839\u6df1\u8482\u56fa\u7684\u3002\u7231\u548c\u7ec8\u751f\u6301\u4e45\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u8d4b\u4e88\u4eba\u4eec\u5b58\u5728\u7684\u610f\u4e49\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u60c5\u611f\u8054\u7cfb \u2013 38 \u4e2a\u6807\u5fd7\u3001\u79d8\u5bc6\u4ee5\u53ca\u5efa\u7acb\u771f\u6b63\u8054\u7cfb\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8054\u7cfb\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e2e\u52a9\u6211\u4eec\u7406\u89e3\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u7231\u67d0\u4eba\u4e5f\u4f1a\u8ba9\u6211\u4eec\u611f\u89c9\u81ea\u5df1\u5c5e\u4e8e\u67d0\u4e2a\u5730\u65b9\uff0c\u8ba9\u6211\u4eec\u611f\u5230\u88ab\u8ba4\u53ef\u3002\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-love-produces-chemical-changes-in-your-body\">\n  <span id=\"2_Love_produces_chemical_changes_in_your_body\">2.\u7231\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4f60\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u4ea7\u751f\u5316\u5b66\u53d8\u5316<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u604b\u7231\u65f6\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u5927\u8111\u4f1a\u88ab\u591a\u5df4\u80fa\u548c\u50ac\u4ea7\u7d20\u7b49\u8ba9\u4eba\u611f\u89c9\u826f\u597d\u7684\u5316\u5b66\u7269\u8d28\u6df9\u6ca1\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5316\u5b66\u7269\u8d28\u589e\u5f3a\u4e86\u6211\u4eec\u5927\u8111\u4e2d\u4e0e\u5feb\u4e50\u548c\u5956\u52b1\u7cfb\u7edf\u76f8\u5173\u7684\u533a\u57df\u3002\u00a0\u57fa\u672c\u4e0a\uff0c\u604b\u7231\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4f60\u611f\u89c9\u826f\u597d\u3002 \ud83d\udcda \u6765\u6e90\uff1aSeshadri, S.\uff0c2016\uff0c\u7231\u7684\u795e\u7ecf\u5185\u5206\u6ccc\u5b66 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f46\u7231\u4e5f\u4f1a\u7ed9\u4f60\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u5e26\u6765\u4e00\u4e9b\u7269\u7406\u53d8\u5316\u3002\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u4e9b\u53d8\u5316\u5305\u62ec\u611f\u89c9\u75bc\u75db\u51cf\u8f7b\u548c\u4e0a\u763e\u7684\u4f9d\u8d56\u611f\u3002 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