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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udcda \u8d44\u6599\u6765\u6e90\uff1aReis & Shaver\uff0c2018\uff0c\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u4f5c\u4e3a\u4eba\u9645\u8fc7\u7a0b <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-you-feel-more-anxious-than-excited-when-they-re-around\">\n  <span id=\"16_You_feel_more_anxious_than_excited_when_theyre_around\">16. \u5f53\u4ed6\u4eec\u5728\u8eab\u8fb9\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u611f\u5230\u7126\u8651\u591a\u4e8e\u5174\u594b<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p 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id=\"21_Your_gut_knows_its_one-sided_but_your_heart_keeps_hoping\">21.\u4f60\u7684\u76f4\u89c9\u77e5\u9053\u8fd9\u662f\u4e00\u9762\u5012\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u4f60\u7684\u5fc3\u4e00\u76f4\u5e0c\u671b<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5185\u5fc3\u90a3\u4e2a\u5b89\u9759\u7684\u58f0\u97f3\uff0c\u4f4e\u8bed\u7684\u58f0\u97f3\uff0c <em>\u4e0d\u662f\u8fd9\u4e2a<\/em>\uff0c\u901a\u5e38\u662f\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u3002\u4f46\u5fc3\u5374\u5f88\u56fa\u6267\u3002\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u6709\u4f9d\u604b\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7ecf\u5e38\u4f1a\u6df7\u6dc6\u5f3a\u5ea6\u548c\u517c\u5bb9\u6027\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u5bf9\u67d0\u4eba\u6709\u5f88\u6df1\u7684\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u4f46\u4ecd\u7136\u8ba4\u8bc6\u5230\u8fd9\u79cd\u8054\u7cfb\u662f\u4e0d\u5e73\u8861\u7684\u3002\u6700\u56f0\u96be\u7684\u90e8\u5206\u662f\u5c0a\u91cd\u8fd9\u4e00\u4e8b\u5b9e\uff0c\u5373\u4f7f\u5e0c\u671b\u6073\u6c42\u4f60\u4e0d\u8981\u8fd9\u6837\u505a\u3002 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class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-lack-of-chemistry\">\n  <span id=\"1_Lack_of_chemistry\">1.\u7f3a\u4e4f\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6027\u5316\u5b66\u51e0\u4e4e\u662f\u65e0\u6cd5\u89e3\u91ca\u7684\u3002\u4f60\u8981\u4e48\u611f\u89c9\u5230\uff0c\u8981\u4e48\u611f\u89c9\u4e0d\u5230\u3002\u4ec5\u4ec5\u56e0\u4e3a\u4f60\u5bf9\u67d0\u4eba\u6709\u8fd9\u79cd\u611f\u89c9\u5e76\u4e0d\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e5f\u6709\u540c\u6837\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u00a0[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u6027\u5316\u5b66\u2014\u2014\u5b83\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u3001\u611f\u89c9\u5982\u4f55\u300152 \u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\u4ee5\u53ca\u589e\u52a0\u5b83\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5373\u4f7f\u4f60\u975e\u5e38\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u80fd\u4fdd\u8bc1\u4e0e\u4f60\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u80fd\u4ea7\u751f\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94\u3002\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94\u53d6\u51b3\u4e8e\u8bb8\u591a\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u56e0\u7d20\uff0c\u6709\u65f6\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u6839\u672c\u6ca1\u6709\u53cc\u5411\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-when-you-chase-after-them-leaving-them-feeling-overwhelmed-nbsp\">\n  <span id=\"2_When_you_chase_after_them_leaving_them_feeling_overwhelmed\">2.\u5f53\u4f60\u8ffd\u8d76\u4ed6\u4eec\u65f6\uff0c\u8ba9\u4ed6\u4eec\u611f\u5230\u4e0d\u77e5\u6240\u63aa\u00a0<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u53ef\u60b2\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u4eba\u4eec\u60f3\u8981\u4ed6\u4eec\u65e0\u6cd5\u62e5\u6709\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u8fd9\u53ea\u662f\u4eba\u6027\u7684\u4e00\u90e8\u5206\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u56e0\u4e3a\u975e\u5e38\u60f3\u8981\u67d0\u4eba\u800c\u4e00\u76f4\u5728\u8ffd\u6c42\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u8fd9\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4ed6\u4eec\u5931\u53bb\u5174\u8da3\u3002\u532e\u4e4f\u548c\u7c98\u4eba\u5bf9\u5927\u591a\u6570\u4eba\u6765\u8bf4\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u5f88\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u3002\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ed6\u4eec\u751a\u81f3\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u53d1\u73b0\u4f60\u7684\u5916\u8868\u5f88\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7684\u6027\u683c\u770b\u8d77\u6765\u5f88\u7edd\u671b\u5e76\u4e14\u7f3a\u4e4f\u81ea\u5c0a\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u5c31\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5bf9\u4f60\u4ea7\u751f\u611f\u60c5\u3002 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4f60\u76f8\u4fe1\u4e0e\u5426\uff0c\u5355\u76f8\u601d\u5e76\u4e0d\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u79cd\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u79cd\u3002\u60a8\u4e0e\u5176\u4e2d\u4efb\u4f55\u4e00\u4e2a\u76f8\u5173\u5417\uff1f\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-loving-someone-who-does-not-return-those-feelings\">\n  <span id=\"1_Loving_someone_who_does_not_return_those_feelings\">1. \u7231\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u5374\u6ca1\u6709\u56de\u62a5<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u79cd\u7c7b\u578b\u7684\u5355\u76f8\u601d\u53ef\u4ee5\u901a\u8fc7\u51e0\u79cd\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u6765\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u65e0\u7231\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u2014\u2014\u4eba\u4eec\u9009\u62e9\u7559\u4e0b\u6765\u7684\u539f\u56e0]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9996\u5148\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u4e0e\u4f60\u6240\u7231\u7684\u4eba\u5efa\u7acb\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u4eec\u5bf9\u4f60\u6ca1\u6709\u540c\u6837\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u8fd9\u4e3b\u8981\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u201c\u65e0\u7231\u201d\u7684\u5a5a\u59fb\/\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u4f46\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u65b9\u9762\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5176\u6b21\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u611f\u53d7\u5230\u5bf9\u4e00\u4e2a\u5bf9\u4f60\u4e0d\u611f\u5174\u8da3\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u6216\u719f\u4eba\u7684\u7231\u3002\u65e0\u8bba\u4f60\u4eec\u662f\u4e00\u751f\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u8fd8\u662f\u521a\u521a\u8ba4\u8bc6\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u90fd\u6ca1\u5173\u7cfb\u3002\u4f60\u8ff7\u604b\u6216\u6df1\u6df1\u5730\u7231\u7740\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u4f46\u4ed6\u4eec\u5374\u6ca1\u6709\u540c\u6837\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-pining-for-someone-who-isn-t-available\">\n  <span id=\"2_Pining_for_someone_who_isnt_available\">2. 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u79cd\u5b64\u7acb\u4e0d\u4ec5\u662f\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u7684\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u8eab\u4f53\u4e0a\u7684\u3002\u7814\u7a76\u8868\u660e\uff0c\u793e\u4f1a\u62d2\u7edd\u4f1a\u6fc0\u6d3b\u4e0e\u8eab\u4f53\u75bc\u75db\u76f8\u540c\u7684\u5927\u8111\u533a\u57df\uff0c\u4f7f\u5355\u604b\u4e2d\u7684\u5b64\u7acb\u611f\u66f4\u52a0\u5f3a\u70c8\u3002 \ud83d\udcda \u8d44\u6599\u6765\u6e90\uff1aEisenberger, N. I., et al., 2003\uff0c\u62d2\u7edd\u4f1a\u9020\u6210\u4f24\u5bb3\u5417\uff1f\u793e\u4f1a\u6392\u65a5\u7684\u529f\u80fd\u78c1\u5171\u632f\u6210\u50cf\u7814\u7a76 <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-stress-and-anxiety\">\n  <span id=\"3_Stress_and_anxiety\">3.\u538b\u529b\u548c\u7126\u8651<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5355\u76f8\u601d\u4e0d\u4ec5\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4f60\u5fc3\u788e\uff0c\u8fd8\u4f1a\u6270\u4e71\u4f60\u7684\u76ae\u8d28\u9187\u6c34\u5e73\u3002\u5904\u4e8e\u60c5\u7eea\u4e0d\u786e\u5b9a\u7684\u72b6\u6001\u4f1a\u5f15\u53d1\u7c7b\u4f3c\u4e8e\u6218\u6597\u6216\u9003\u8dd1\u7684\u538b\u529b\u53cd\u5e94\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7acb\u573a\u3001\u89e3\u8bfb\u6df7\u5408\u4fe1\u53f7\u6216\u60f3\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u5426\u8db3\u591f\u7684\u7126\u8651\u4f1a\u9020\u6210\u6301\u7eed\u7684\u60c5\u7eea\u56f0\u6270\u3002\u4ece\u957f\u8fdc\u6765\u770b\uff0c\u8fd9\u79cd\u6162\u6027\u538b\u529b\u4f1a\u5f71\u54cd\u60a8\u7684\u7761\u7720\u3001\u6ce8\u610f\u529b\u3001\u514d\u75ab\u7cfb\u7edf\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u98df\u6b32\u3002 \ud83d\udcda \u8d44\u6599\u6765\u6e90\uff1aSapolsky, R. 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