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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e8b\u5b9e\u4e0a\uff0c\u786e\u5b9e\u5982\u6b64\u3002\u4f60\u53ea\u662f\u592a\u5206\u5fc3\u4e86\uff0c\u9700\u8981\u4e0e\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u91cd\u65b0\u8054\u7cfb\u3002\u00a0[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5173\u4e8e\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u548c\u7231\u60c5\u7684\u771f\u5b9e\u4e8b\u5b9e\u6ca1\u6709\u4eba\u8c08\u8bba]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5931\u604b\u5e76\u4e0d\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4f60\u5b8c\u5168\u5931\u53bb\u4e86\u5bf9\u67d0\u4eba\u7684\u6240\u6709\u611f\u60c5\u3002\u5f53\u4f60\u4eec\u4e00\u8d77\u5206\u4eab\u65f6\u523b\u548c\u56de\u5fc6\u65f6\uff0c\u5f88\u96be\u771f\u6b63\u5931\u53bb\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u6240\u6709\u7231\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4f5c\u4e3a\u592b\u59bb\u5982\u4f55\u9762\u5bf9\u5173\u7cfb\u6311\u6218\u5e76\u514b\u670d\u5b83\u4eec]<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-reasons-people-fall-out-of-love\">\n  <span id=\"Reasons_people_fall_out_of_love\">\u4eba\u4eec\u5931\u604b\u7684\u539f\u56e0<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u592b\u59bb\u65e0\u6cd5\u7ef4\u6301\u7231\u60c5\u6216\u6700\u7ec8\u88ab\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u5438\u5f15\u7684\u539f\u56e0\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u3002\u4f46\u51e0\u4e4e\u603b\u662f\u4ece\u4ee5\u4e0b\u539f\u56e0\u5f00\u59cb\uff1a<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-falling-in-love-too-fast\">\n  <span id=\"1_Falling_in_love_too_fast\">1. \u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u592a\u5feb<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u9700\u8981\u65f6\u95f4\u3002\u4f46\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u5f80\u5f80\u592a\u5bb9\u6613\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u901a\u5e38\u53ea\u9700\u8981\u4e0d\u5230\u4e00\u5206\u949f\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u5c31\u80fd\u786e\u5b9a\u6211\u4eec\u662f\u5426\u559c\u6b22\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u3002\u4f46\u6211\u4eec\u5e94\u8be5\u82b1\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u65f6\u95f4\u6765\u51b3\u5b9a\u6211\u4eec\u662f\u5426\u771f\u7684\u7231\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u5e94\u8be5\u5305\u62ec\u4e86\u89e3\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u6838\u5fc3\uff0c\u5e76\u5728\u5f7c\u6b64\u4e4b\u95f4\u5efa\u7acb\u4e00\u4e2a\u517c\u5bb9\u7684\u65b9\u7a0b\u5f0f\u3002\u5b83\u4e0d\u5e94\u8be5\u4ec5\u4ec5\u6d89\u53ca\u76f8\u4e92\u5438\u5f15\u7684\u7b80\u5355\u884c\u4e3a\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u770b\u770b\u51e0\u4e2a\u540d\u4eba\u5c31\u77e5\u9053\u4e86\u3002\u771f\u7231\u5728\u5f7c\u6b64\u76f8\u5904\u7684\u51e0\u5929\u5185\u5c31\u5ba3\u5e03\u4e86\uff0c\u65cb\u98ce\u822c\u7684\u6d6a\u6f2b\u5f00\u59cb\u4e86\uff0c\u76f4\u5230\u79bb\u5a5a\u7ed3\u675f\uff0c\u6709\u65f6\u4e0d\u5230\u51e0\u4e2a\u6708\u5c31\u7ed3\u675f\u4e86\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u8fdb\u5c55\u592a\u5feb\u7684 25 \u4e2a\u8ff9\u8c61\u4ee5\u53ca\u653e\u6162\u901f\u5ea6\u7684\u6700\u4f73\u65b9\u6cd5]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-great-expectations\">\n  <span id=\"2_Great_expectations\">2. \u8fdc\u5927\u7684\u671f\u671b<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u6e34\u671b\u627e\u5230\u54c1\u8d28\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7684\u5408\u4f5c\u4f19\u4f34\u3002\u4f46\u5f53\u4f60\u5728\u4e00\u6bb5\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u5bfb\u6c42\u5b8c\u7f8e\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u53ea\u4f1a\u8ba9\u8fd9\u79cd\u5173\u7cfb\u8d70\u5411\u5931\u8d25\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u671f\u671b\u8d8a\u591a\uff0c\u5f53\u90a3\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5207\u5b9e\u9645\u7684\u671f\u671b\u6ca1\u6709\u5f97\u5230\u6ee1\u8db3\u65f6\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5c31\u8d8a\u5931\u671b\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6c38\u4e0d\u6ee1\u8db3\u3001\u60f3\u8981\u66f4\u591a\u662f\u4eba\u7684\u672c\u6027\u3002\u9664\u4e86\u8eab\u4f53\u7d20\u8d28\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u8fd8\u770b\u91cd\u4f34\u4fa3\u7684\u5f88\u591a\u54c1\u8d28\u3002\u5f53\u4f60\u5728\u4f34\u4fa3\u8eab\u4e0a\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u8fd9\u4e9b\u54c1\u8d28\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u4ecd\u7136\u7231\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u4f46\u53ea\u662f\u6ca1\u6709\u90a3\u4e48\u7231\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f46\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4f60\u5e94\u8be5\u63a5\u53d7\u5e73\u5eb8\u3002\u8fd9\u4ec5\u4ec5\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4f60\u5f97\u5230\u4e86\u4f60\u6240\u4ed8\u51fa\u7684\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u671f\u671b\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u60a8\u4e5f\u5fc5\u987b\u613f\u610f\u5728\u5404\u65b9\u9762\u6210\u4e3a\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5b9a\u4e49\u7f8e\u597d\u7231\u60c5\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684 20 \u4e2a\u5065\u5eb7\u671f\u671b]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-getting-back-to-reality\">\n  <span id=\"3_Getting_back_to_reality\">3.\u56de\u5230\u73b0\u5b9e<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u75f4\u60c5\u9636\u6bb5\u7ed3\u675f\u540e\uff0c\u4f60\u5f00\u59cb\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u4e16\u754c\u5e76\u4e0d\u90a3\u4e48\u7f8e\u597d\uff0c\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u4e5f\u4e0d\u50cf\u4ee5\u524d\u90a3\u4e48\u7f8e\u597d\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u5bf9\u65b0\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u5f3a\u70c8\u611f\u60c5\u5f00\u59cb\u6d88\u9000\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u4f1a\u770b\u5230\u8868\u9762\u4e4b\u4e0b\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u5927\u591a\u6570\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u4ee4\u4eba\u6109\u5feb\u7684\u666f\u8c61\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9664\u4e86\u7231\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u8fd8\u9700\u8981\u52aa\u529b\u3001\u52aa\u529b\u548c\u884c\u52a8\u3002\u8bb8\u591a\u4eba\u8fd8\u6ca1\u6709\u4e3a\u6b64\u505a\u597d\u51c6\u5907\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4f60\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u5e78\u798f\u7231\u60c5\u80cc\u540e\u7684\u771f\u76f8]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-when-priorities-start-to-change\">\n  <span id=\"4_When_priorities_start_to_change\">4. \u5f53\u4f18\u5148\u4e8b\u9879\u5f00\u59cb\u6539\u53d8\u65f6<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u968f\u7740\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u63a8\u79fb\uff0c\u4eba\u4e0e\u4eba\u4e4b\u95f4\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e5f\u4f1a\u53d1\u751f\u53d8\u5316\u3002\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u4f18\u5148\u987a\u5e8f\u4e5f\u5f00\u59cb\u6539\u53d8\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5f00\u59cb\u628a\u5176\u4ed6\u4e8b\u60c5\u653e\u5728\u7231\u60c5\u4e4b\u524d\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u548c\u67d0\u4eba\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u5f88\u957f\u65f6\u95f4\u5e76\u4e14\u4f60\u6ca1\u6709\u50cf\u4ee5\u524d\u90a3\u6837\u5f97\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u6ce8\u65f6\uff0c\u95ee\u9898\u5c31\u4f1a\u5f00\u59cb\u51fa\u73b0\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u6028\u6068\u6539\u53d8\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u4f1a\u5f00\u59cb\u6028\u6068\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u3002\u6700\u7ec8\uff0c\u7231\u60c5\u5f00\u59cb\u5d29\u6e83\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-loss-of-chemistry\">\n  <span id=\"5_Loss_of_chemistry\">5. \u5931\u53bb\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94\u8ba9\u4e00\u6bb5\u5173\u7cfb\u5982\u6b64\u4ee4\u4eba\u5174\u594b\u3002\u4e00\u5f00\u59cb\uff0c\u6bcf\u6bb5\u5173\u7cfb\u90fd\u5145\u6ee1\u521b\u9020\u6027\u7684\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94\uff01\u6b64\u65f6\uff0c\u5de5\u4f5c\u548c\u5176\u4ed6\u627f\u8bfa\u6709\u65f6\u4f1a\u9000\u5c45\u4e8c\u7ebf\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u4f60\u7684\u7231\u4eba\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u4f60\u5f88\u96be\u8003\u8651\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f46\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u603b\u662f\u6c38\u8fdc\u6301\u7eed\u4e0b\u53bb\u3002\u968f\u7740\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94\u7684\u6d88\u5931\uff0c\u7f8e\u597d\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u5f00\u59cb\u6d88\u5931\uff0c\u5927\u591a\u6570\u5173\u7cfb\u4e5f\u4f1a\u968f\u4e4b\u6d88\u5931\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u5224\u65ad\u7ea6\u4f1a\u65f6\u662f\u5426\u6ca1\u6709\u5316\u5b66\u53cd\u5e94&\u4f60\u5e94\u8be5\u505c\u6b62\u5c1d\u8bd5]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-mismatch-in-emotional-maturity\">\n  <span id=\"6_Mismatch_in_emotional_maturity\">6. <strong>\u60c5\u611f\u6210\u719f\u5ea6\u4e0d\u5339\u914d<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u968f\u7740\u4eba\u9645\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u53d1\u5c55\uff0c\u60c5\u611f\u7684\u6210\u719f\u53d8\u5f97\u81f3\u5173\u91cd\u8981\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4e00\u65b9\u5728\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u6210\u957f\uff0c\u5b66\u4e60\u6c9f\u901a\u3001\u81ea\u6211\u8c03\u8282\u548c\u540c\u7406\u5fc3\uff0c\u800c\u53e6\u4e00\u65b9\u5374\u9677\u5165\u5426\u8ba4\u6216\u620f\u5267\u6027\u7684\u5883\u5730\uff0c\u8fd9\u79cd\u8054\u7cfb\u5c31\u4f1a\u6162\u6162\u7834\u88c2\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u60c5\u611f\u4e0d\u6210\u719f\uff1a\u5982\u4f55\u8ba4\u8bc6\u4ed6\u4eec\u5e76\u5e2e\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eec\u6210\u957f]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u4f9d\u9760\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u6765\u5904\u7406\u68d8\u624b\u7684\u8c08\u8bdd\u6216\u627f\u62c5\u8d23\u4efb\u65f6\uff0c\u7231\u5c31\u4e0d\u518d\u611f\u5230\u5b89\u5168\uff0c\u611f\u89c9\u75b2\u60eb\u4e0d\u582a\u3002 \ud83d\udcda \u8d44\u6599\u6765\u6e90\uff1aArnett, J.J.\uff0c2000\uff0c\u6210\u5e74\u521d\u671f\u548c\u8eab\u4efd\u53d1\u5c55 <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-incompatible-attachment-styles\">\n  <span id=\"7_Incompatible_attachment_styles\">7. <strong>\u4e0d\u517c\u5bb9\u7684\u9644\u4ef6\u6837\u5f0f<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6709\u65f6\uff0c\u7231\u60c5\u6d88\u5931\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u611f\u60c5\u6d88\u5931\u4e86\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u4f60\u7684\u795e\u7ecf\u7cfb\u7edf\u5728\u73a9\u62d4\u6cb3\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4eec\u4e2d\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u9700\u8981\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\uff08\u7126\u8651\u578b\u4f9d\u604b\uff09\uff0c\u800c\u53e6\u4e00\u4e2a\u5219\u5728\u60c5\u7eea\u9ad8\u6da8\u65f6\u5c01\u95ed\u81ea\u5df1\uff08\u56de\u907f\u578b\u4f9d\u604b\uff09\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4f60\u4eec\u90fd\u4f1a\u611f\u5230\u672a\u88ab\u6ee1\u8db3\u548c\u8bef\u89e3\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4f9d\u604b\u98ce\u683c\u7406\u8bba\uff1a4 \u79cd\u7c7b\u578b\u548c 19 \u79cd\u6807\u5fd7\u4ee5\u53ca\u4f60\u4f9d\u604b\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f9d\u604b\u98ce\u683c\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u6539\u53d8\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u4e0d\u52a0\u4ee5\u63a7\u5236\uff0c\u5c31\u4f1a\u7834\u574f\u60c5\u611f\u8054\u7cfb\u3002 \ud83d\udcda \u6765\u6e90\uff1aHazan, C., & Shaver, P. R.\uff0c1987\uff0c\u6d6a\u6f2b\u7231\u60c5\u88ab\u6982\u5ff5\u5316\u4e3a\u4f9d\u604b\u8fc7\u7a0b <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-unresolved-conflict-loops\">\n  <span id=\"8_Unresolved_conflict_loops\">8. <strong>\u672a\u89e3\u51b3\u7684\u51b2\u7a81\u5faa\u73af<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6709\u6ca1\u6709\u611f\u89c9\u81ea\u5df1\u4e00\u76f4\u5728\u6253\u540c\u6837\u7684\u4ed7\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u7a7f\u7740\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u8863\u670d\uff1f\u90a3\u4e9b\u4ece\u672a\u771f\u6b63\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u592b\u59bb\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ea\u662f\u6682\u505c\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u5e38\u5e38\u611f\u89c9\u81ea\u5df1\u5982\u5c65\u8584\u51b0\uff0c\u60c5\u611f\u4e0a\u8131\u8282\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u9677\u5165\u201c\u65e0\u804a\u6a21\u5f0f\u201d\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4f60\u8981\u4e0d\u65ad\u8fdb\u884c\u540c\u6837\u7684\u6597\u4e89\u548c\u6253\u7834\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u5faa\u73af\u7684\u79d8\u5bc6]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7ea6\u7ff0\u00b7\u6208\u7279\u66fc\u535a\u58eb\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u5bfc\u81f4\u7231\u60c5\u892a\u8272\u7684\u4e0d\u662f\u4e89\u5435\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u4e8b\u540e\u7f3a\u4e4f\u4fee\u590d\u3002<br \/>\ud83d\udcda \u8d44\u6599\u6765\u6e90\uff1aGottman, J. M.\uff0c1999\uff0c\u300a\u8ba9\u5a5a\u59fb\u5e78\u798f\u7684\u4e03\u9879\u539f\u5219\u300b <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-loss-of-emotional-safety\">\n  <span id=\"9_Loss_of_emotional_safety\">9. <strong>\u5931\u53bb\u60c5\u611f\u5b89\u5168\u611f<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f60\u4eec\u4ecd\u7136\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e00\u8d77\u6b22\u7b11\u3001\u7ea6\u4f1a\u3001\u5ea6\u5047\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u9700\u6c42\u611f\u5230\u88ab\u5ffd\u89c6\u3001\u8bef\u89e3\u6216\u5ffd\u89c6\uff0c\u7231\u60c5\u5c31\u4f1a\u5f00\u59cb\u505c\u6b62\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u60c5\u611f\u5b89\u5168\u662f\u957f\u671f\u4eb2\u5bc6\u5173\u7cfb\u7684\u65e0\u5f62\u7c98\u5408\u5242\u3002\u6ca1\u6709\u5b83\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u4f1a\u505c\u6b62\u5f00\u653e\u3002\u4f60\u505c\u6b62\u5c1d\u8bd5\u3002\u4f60\u4eec\u53ea\u662f\u2026\u2026\u6162\u6162\u5730\u5206\u5f00\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u8ba9\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684\u5b89\u5fc3\uff1a\u8ba9\u4f60\u7231\u7684\u4eba\u5b89\u5fc3\u7684 40 \u4e2a\u6807\u5fd7\u548c\u65b9\u6cd5]<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\n  <strong>\ud83d\udc49\u9605\u8bfb\u8fd9\u4e9b\u529f\u80fd\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e86\u89e3\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u7231\u60c5\u4f1a\u7834\u88c2\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5982\u4f55\u51b3\u5b9a\u4e0b\u4e00\u6b65\u8be5\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002<\/strong>\n<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-signs-you-ve-stopped-loving-someone\">\n  <span id=\"Signs_youve_stopped_loving_someone\">\u8ff9\u8c61\u8868\u660e\u4f60\u5df2\u7ecf\u4e0d\u518d\u7231\u67d0\u4eba<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f60\u662f\u5426\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u5728\u604b\u7231\u8fd8\u662f\u5931\u604b\u611f\u5230\u56f0\u60d1\uff1f <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6709\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u8ba4\u4e3a\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u5df2\u7ecf\u5931\u604b\u4e86\uff0c\u4f46\u4e8b\u5b9e\u5e76\u975e\u5982\u6b64\u3002\u6709\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u53ef\u80fd\u9700\u8981\u4e00\u4e9b\u8ff9\u8c61\u624d\u80fd\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u60a8\u4e0d\u518d\u76f8\u7231\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-an-outside-force-is-causing-constant-problems\">\n  <span id=\"1_An_outside_force_is_causing_constant_problems\">1. \u5916\u90e8\u529b\u91cf\u4e0d\u65ad\u9020\u6210\u95ee\u9898<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5916\u90e8\u529b\u91cf\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u6709\u95ee\u9898\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u8fd9\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5bfc\u81f4\u4f60\u4eec\u4e89\u5435\u5e76\u4e92\u76f8\u6028\u6068\u3002\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u4ee4\u4eba\u6cae\u4e27\u7684\u5a46\u5a46\u3001\u524d\u4efb\u3001\u538b\u529b\u5f88\u5927\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u6216\u91d1\u94b1\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u53ef\u4ee5\u5728\u6ca1\u6709\u4f60\u4eec\u4efb\u4f55\u4e00\u65b9\u7684\u53c2\u4e0e\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u4e0b\u53d1\u751f\u3002\u5b83\u4eec\u4e5f\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4f60\u4eec\u592b\u59bb\u4e0d\u77e5\u6240\u63aa\uff0c\u8ba9\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u6ce8\u610f\u529b\u4ece\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0a\u8f6c\u79fb\u5f00\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e5f\u5c31\u662f\u8bf4\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u6682\u65f6\u7684\u3002\u60a8\u7684\u5a46\u5a46\u4f1a\u5728\u624b\u672f\u540e\u4e0e\u60a8\u4e00\u8d77\u5eb7\u590d\u51e0\u5468\u5417\uff1f\u60a8\u7684\u5408\u4f5c\u4f19\u4f34\u51c6\u5907\u5347\u804c\u5417\uff1f <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5982\u679c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u662f\u6682\u65f6\u7684\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u627e\u5230\u89e3\u51b3\u529e\u6cd5\u3002\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u6ca1\u6709\uff0c\u8fd9\u53ef\u80fd\u8868\u660e\u4e8b\u60c5\u6ca1\u6709\u8fdb\u5c55\u3002\u00a0[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4f60\u4eec\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u4f18\u5148\u4e8b\u9879\u2014\u2014\u5982\u4f55\u627e\u5230\u5e76\u5173\u6ce8\u5b83]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-you-feel-bored-a-lot-of-the-time\">\n  <span id=\"2_You_feel_bored_a_lot_of_the_time\">2.\u5f88\u591a\u65f6\u5019\u4f60\u611f\u5230\u65e0\u804a<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5728\u5927\u591a\u6570\u957f\u671f\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\uff0c\u5174\u594b\u611f\u4f1a\u9010\u6e10\u6d88\u5931\uff0c\u53d6\u800c\u4ee3\u4e4b\u7684\u662f\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002\u4f46\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u610f\u5473\u7740\u6240\u6709\u7684\u70ed\u60c5\u90fd\u4f1a\u6d88\u5931\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u89c9\u5f97\u4f60\u4eec\u66f4\u50cf\u662f\u5ba4\u53cb\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u60c5\u4fa3\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u4e0d\u518d\u4e00\u8d77\u5ea6\u8fc7\u592a\u591a\u7f8e\u597d\u65f6\u5149\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4f60\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u9677\u5165\u56f0\u5883\u3002\u8fd9\u79cd\u611f\u89c9\u5f88\u6b63\u5e38\uff0c\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4f60\u4e00\u5f00\u59cb\u6709\u591a\u75af\u72c2\u5730\u7231\u7740\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u5e76\u4e0d\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4e8b\u60c5\u5c31\u6ce8\u5b9a\u4e86\uff0c\u53ea\u662f\u4f60\u4eec\u4e24\u4e2a\u5fc5\u987b\u505a\u51fa\u79ef\u6781\u7684\u51b3\u5b9a\uff0c\u4ee5\u91cd\u65b0\u70b9\u71c3\u4f60\u4eec\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684\u6fc0\u60c5\u3002\u00a0[\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u4f60\u5bf9\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u611f\u5230\u538c\u5026\u7684 15 \u4e2a\u5e38\u89c1\u539f\u56e0]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-you-don-t-really-think-about-them-when-you-re-apart\">\n  <span id=\"3_You_dont_really_think_about_them_when_youre_apart\">3. \u5f53\u4f60\u4eec\u5206\u5f00\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u4e0d\u4f1a\u771f\u6b63\u53bb\u60f3\u4ed6\u4eec<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u5f00\u59cb\u548c\u67d0\u4eba\u7ea6\u4f1a\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u5f80\u5f80\u60f3\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u4eec\u4e0d\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u65f6\u4ed6\u4eec\u5728\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u4eec\u5efa\u7acb\u8054\u7cfb\u65f6\uff0c\u60a8\u5728\u5546\u5e97\u65f6\u5c31\u4f1a\u60f3\u5230\u4ed6\u4eec\uff0c\u60f3\u77e5\u9053\u4ed6\u4eec\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002\u6216\u8005\u4f60\u5168\u5929\u7ed9\u4ed6\u4eec\u53d1\u9001\u6709\u8da3\u7684\u8868\u60c5\u5305\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u5b83\u4eec\u603b\u662f\u5728\u4f60\u7684\u8111\u6d77\u91cc\u3002<\/p>\n<p 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6709\u65f6\uff0c\u53cc\u65b9\u90fd\u4f1a\u61c8\u6020\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u8c01\u90fd\u6ca1\u6709\u770b\u5230\u5bf9\u65b9\u4ed8\u51fa\u4e86\u52aa\u529b\uff01 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5373\u4f7f\u8fd9\u662f\u6700\u96be\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\uff0c\u4e5f\u8868\u660e\u662f\u65f6\u5019\u5206\u624b\u4e86]<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-to-do-when-you-fall-out-of-love-with-your-partner\">\n  <span id=\"What_to_do_when_you_fall_out_of_love_with_your_partner\">\u5f53\u4f60\u4e0d\u518d\u7231\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u65f6\u8be5\u600e\u4e48\u529e <\/span><br \/>\n<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u771f\u7684\u8ba4\u4e3a\u4f60\u5df2\u7ecf\u4e0d\u518d\u7231\u4e86\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u9700\u8981\u505a\u51fa\u51b3\u5b9a\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f60\u4f1a\u52aa\u529b\u4e89\u53d6\uff0c\u8fd8\u662f\u4f1a\u5c31\u6b64\u653e\u5f03\u5e76\u63d0\u51fa\u5206\u624b\uff1f\u5982\u679c\u53ef\u4ee5\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u5c1d\u8bd5\u89e3\u51b3\u95ee\u9898\u5f53\u7136\u662f\u503c\u5f97\u7684\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u6837\uff0c\u5f53\u4f60\u51e0\u5e74\u540e\u56de\u987e\u65f6\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u786e\u5b9a\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u4e0d\u4f1a\u9677\u5165\u56f0\u5883\u3002\u6ca1\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u6bd4\u540e\u6094\u66f4\u7cdf\u7cd5\u7684\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u60a8\u53ef\u4ee5\u901a\u8fc7\u4ee5\u4e0b\u51e0\u79cd\u65b9\u6cd5\u6765\u8bc6\u522b\u95ee\u9898\u5e76\u5c1d\u8bd5\u89e3\u51b3\u5b83\u3002 <\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-journal-and-keep-track\">\n  <span id=\"1_Journal_and_keep_track\">1. \u8bb0\u5f55\u5e76\u8ddf\u8e2a<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5199\u65e5\u8bb0\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e2e\u52a9\u4f60\u4e86\u89e3\u4e00\u6bb5\u65f6\u95f4\u5185\u7684\u771f\u5b9e\u611f\u53d7\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u90fd\u4f1a\u7ecf\u5386\u56f0\u96be\u65f6\u671f\uff0c\u6709\u65f6\u8fd9\u4f1a\u6682\u65f6\u5f71\u54cd\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002\u4f46\u65e5\u8bb0\u4f1a\u7ed9\u4f60\u66f4\u5927\u7684\u89c6\u91ce\u3002 \u3010\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a28\u4e2a\u81ea\u6211\u63d0\u5347\u79d8\u8bc0\uff0c\u63d0\u5347\u81ea\u6211\uff0c\u8f6c\u53d8\u4e3a\u6700\u597d\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\u3011<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-identify-what-you-want-in-your-future\">\n  <span id=\"2_Identify_what_you_want_in_your_future\">2. \u660e\u786e\u4f60\u7684\u672a\u6765\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u4e48<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f60\u771f\u6b63\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u4e48\uff1f\u5728\u672a\u6765\u7684\u65e5\u5b50\u91cc\uff0c\u4f60\u80fd\u770b\u5230\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4eba\u5728\u4f60\u8eab\u8fb9\u5417\uff1f<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u82b1\u4e00\u4e9b\u65f6\u95f4\u601d\u8003\u4f60\u7684\u672a\u6765\u4ee5\u53ca\u4f60\u7edd\u5bf9\u60f3\u8981\u5b9e\u73b0\u7684\u76ee\u6807\u3002\u5982\u679c\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4eba\u4e0d\u7b26\u5408\u4f60\u7684\u8ba1\u5212\uff0c\u4e5f\u8bb8\u662f\u65f6\u5019\u5206\u9053\u626c\u9573\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-tackle-resentment-quickly\">\n  <span id=\"3_Tackle_resentment_quickly\">3. \u8fc5\u901f\u89e3\u51b3\u4e0d\u6ee1\u60c5\u7eea <\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6028\u6068\u5c31\u50cf\u4e00\u79cd\u75c5\u6bd2\uff0c\u5b83\u4f1a\u751f\u957f\u5e76\u611f\u67d3\u5468\u56f4\u7684\u4e00\u5207\u548c\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u6028\u6068\u4f60\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\uff0c\u662f\u65f6\u5019\u627e\u51fa\u539f\u56e0\u5e76\u5c1d\u8bd5\u89e3\u51b3\u5b83\u4e86\u3002 <\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6c9f\u901a\u5e76\u5c1d\u8bd5\u82b1\u66f4\u591a\u65f6\u95f4\u4e00\u8d77\u505a\u4f60\u4eec\u559c\u6b22\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u4e5f\u8bb8\u8fd9\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u9636\u6bb5\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u653e\u4e0b\u6028\u6068\u3001\u505c\u6b62\u611f\u5230\u75db\u82e6\u5e76\u5f00\u59cb\u751f\u6d3b\u7684 25 \u79cd\u65b9\u6cd5]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-discuss-and-reinvest-in-your-shared-values\">\n  <span id=\"4_Discuss_and_reinvest_in_your_shared_values\">4. \u8ba8\u8bba\u5e76\u91cd\u65b0\u6295\u8d44\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5171\u540c\u4ef7\u503c\u89c2<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5750\u4e0b\u6765\u8c08\u8c08\u5bf9\u4f60\u4eec\u4fe9\u90fd\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u505a\u4e9b\u4ec0\u4e48\u6765\u8ba9\u4f60\u4eec\u53cc\u65b9\u90fd\u671d\u7740\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4ef7\u503c\u89c2\u524d\u8fdb\uff0c\u5e76\u4e3a\u4f60\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u5e26\u6765\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u5174\u594b\uff1f<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-ask-for-outside-help\">\n  <span id=\"5_Ask_for_outside_help\">5.\u5bfb\u6c42\u5916\u90e8\u5e2e\u52a9<\/span><br \/>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4e00\u4e9b\u592b\u5987\u53d1\u73b0\u6cbb\u7597\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u975e\u5e38\u6709\u7528\u7684\u5de5\u5177\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e2e\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eec\u6446\u8131\u5173\u7cfb\u4e2d\u7684\u56f0\u96be\u5c40\u9762\u3002\u5982\u679c\u60a8\u8ba4\u4e3a\u8fd9\u5bf9\u60a8\u6709\u5e2e\u52a9\uff0c\u8bf7\u4e0d\u8981\u5bb3\u6015\u4f38\u51fa\u63f4\u624b\u3002 [\u9605\u8bfb\uff1a\u5173\u7cfb\u6cbb\u7597 \u2013 25 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